Papa-katsu and sex work

> I work in the adult entertainment industry, but I’ve realized that it suits me better than papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If you feel that this line of work suits you better and that’s why you’re doing it, I don’t think there’s any need to compare it with papa-katsu. Why is it still on your mind? It sounds like adult entertainment is what suits you, so you’ve already reached your conclusion. I don’t think you need to wonder now whether papa-katsu might have been a better fit after all. Since you’ve realized that your current work suits you, I think it would be best to focus on doing your best there. That’s also the impression I get from your question. Just to be clear, I think the difference lies in this way of thinking: “There are overwhelmingly more customers than male members who make offers, so I can earn a stable income every day.” Many women who do papa-katsu would prefer to have one person support them over the long term, if possible. They may seem to date multiple people, but that’s probably because seeing only one man carries the risk of being cut off at any time. As a result, they end up seeing multiple people. Of course, there are also women who want to see different people or receive enough total support to match what they would earn in the adult entertainment industry. But I think most women aren’t trying to earn a large income. They simply want a little luxury, don’t need to earn as much as they would by working in adult entertainment, and would be happy if a man supported them through their relationship rather than having to work in that industry. If your goal is to earn a stable income, then I think adult entertainment is probably a better fit for you. The difference between earning money and being supported—that’s where the distinction lies.

Only a small number of women can earn a stable income from sex work over the long term. If you’ve been able to earn steadily for a long time, then perhaps papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is the right path for you. One difference between papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and sex work is the number of men you have to see. Compared with sex work, the number of men a woman meets through papa-katsu is relatively small. Considering the risk of sexually transmitted infections, sex work is simply too dangerous.

If you have tens of millions of yen in savings, then adult entertainment venues are the right choice. I don’t want to get sick, so I don’t go to those places. I would never cause any trouble for my monthly arrangement partner.

The difference is so great that I’m willing to spend anywhere from 100 to several hundred times what I’d spend on a single sex worker on one papa-katsu woman. Women who are suited to papa-katsu will share their personal information with you from the start. The longer you see each other, the closer you become in other ways as well. Their offers don’t dry up even after being registered for years—and in the first place, they don’t need to stay registered that long. I think the difference is that sex work is for making money, while papa-katsu is for having a good experience. If your priority is earning money, I don’t think you’re suited to anything but sex work.

Women working in the sex industry have it tough, don’t they? If they become popular, they might see five clients a day. Working 20 days a month means 100 people—and 300 in three months. Hmm, I don’t know… With women doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), though, how many men do they usually see in a month? Maybe 10 at most? If things go well, I might be one of three—or rather, one of the three? Haha. For me, papa-katsu means I can be intimate with an ordinary woman who looks like a typical office worker and has a refined, innocent appearance, without her seeing anywhere near as many different people as someone in the sex industry. Of course, without money involved, I’d never have a chance with women in this league. So I think papa-katsu is a pretty great system, honestly. Haha.

This question has been asked so many times, and aren’t you the same person who posts these repeatedly? You’ve already given yourself the answer: “I realized that working in the adult entertainment industry suits me better.” Based on what you’ve written, it seems you were using the dating club to find someone for prostitution. If transactional men consistently cut things off after just two or three meetings, that’s not a problem with the dating club—you simply don’t have what it takes to make them want to continue. Adult entertainment may have suited you better, but that doesn’t mean it’s the same for every woman. To me, an adult entertainment establishment is somewhere you pay to receive sexual services, while a dating club is somewhere you find a dating partner. They’re completely different things.