The appeal of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is that you can enjoy an adult relationship (intimate) with women you normally wouldn’t get the chance to meet.
I’ve had a great time with women in entertainment and flight attendants—women you’d rarely meet through the adult entertainment industry.
With that kind of service, you can’t choose someone based on her profession, after all.
Also, since they aren’t seeing an unspecified number of people, I feel the risk of illness is lower than with the adult entertainment industry.
But the biggest thing is probably that you’re not simply buying a woman’s time.
With adult entertainment, your time is strictly managed, and when the alarm goes off, it’s goodbye. With women doing papa-katsu, things are much more flexible.
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Women working in the adult entertainment industry have it tough, don’t they?
If they become popular, they might see five customers a day. Working 20 days a month means 100 men, and 300 in three months. Hmm, I don’t know…
With a papa-katsu girl, though, the number of men she sees in a month is probably no more than 10 at most. If things go well, maybe I’ll be one of those three? LOL
I guess the appeal of papa-katsu for me is that I can be intimate with a woman who looks like an ordinary office worker, has a clean-cut appearance, and isn’t seeing an unspecified number of men like someone in the adult entertainment industry.
Without money involved, I obviously couldn’t be intimate with a woman in this league, so I think it’s a pretty amazing system. LOL
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I joined a dating club because I wanted to meet people outside my industry. I’ve dated people connected to my work too, but I didn’t get too involved since things can get complicated.
I used to be in a monthly mistress arrangement, so I liked the idea of being introduced to someone with a similar understanding.
Outside dating clubs, most people who aren’t connected to my work tend to earn less than I do. I wouldn’t feel right having them pay for our dates, but I don’t really feel like paying for them either.
What do I look for in a partner? Physical chemistry, I suppose.
In my case, I don’t like not receiving an allowance—especially when he gives one to other women but not me. Still, I don’t focus too much on the amount. We also go on ordinary dates together, of course.
Thankfully, the people who’ve remained are kind, flexible with their schedules, and have strong sex drives.
It’s so different from the adult entertainment industry that I can’t even see how the two can be compared.
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I’m still wandering around, not really sure what I’m truly looking for.
My preference is to chat about current affairs with cheerful, upbeat women who have their breasts completely out, and eventually say, “Shall we start taking things off?” before checking the color and shape of their areolas.
Yes, I know—it’s not exactly tasteful.
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With papa-katsu, you might visit a woman’s regular workplace, support her, or even work alongside her…
Huh? If her main job is sex work, then that would count as her workplace too… That’s not what I meant.
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Even with an allowance involved, I think women should have the right to choose the men they meet.
In the adult entertainment industry, women generally can’t choose their customers.
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They seemed like they wanted attention, so I decided to respond.
The correct phrase is “癪に障る” (“to get on someone’s nerves”).
I’m looking for interesting experiences and excitement through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Adult entertainment venues provide sexual services, but I see dating as building a relationship with another person.
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For me, it’s definitely the peace of mind of having my “balls” taken care of, haha.
In my case, it’s a fully committed arrangement, so it’s a completely different kind of relationship from the purely sexual ones you’d have with a sex worker, haha.
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