Tips Oct 12, 2023 22:24

I met my papa (a male supporter) at a dating club six months ago, and we’ve been seeing each other once a week. Lately, he’s been talking more and more about marriage and saying he wants me to meet his family. What do you think is going through his mind?

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I trust him, I’m attracted to him, and he’s quite wealthy, but there’s over a 30-year age gap, so I’m not considering marriage. Is it okay to keep assuming he’s joking?
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Maybe it’s best to keep believing it was all just a joke. Marika
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
I think it’s because she’s using the club to look for a marriage partner, not for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Maybe you should make it clear sooner rather than later that marriage isn’t an option. Leaving things unaddressed gives me a bad feeling. — It’s me
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
Listen to everything they have to say, but proceed with caution! It’s perfectly fine to ask why they want to do that.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Men will always take the bait—or no, that’s not it. Men are always serious. Even when they’re simply mistaken…
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シアトル
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If he’s about 50 years older, he might die sooner, but people don’t exactly die that easily, do they? Try saying, “I’ll marry you if you give me ⚪︎ billion yen upfront.” I’d say that before even talking about family. An old guy’s only real value is his money, right? Maybe you could live together with mutual respect and trust, like Madame Dewi.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
You can’t possibly know the mindset of a complete stranger. You don’t have to force yourself to come up with a question and post it. Generally speaking, people don’t jokingly ask to be introduced to someone’s family.
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