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Oct 8, 2023 14:25
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s a shame to assume that everyone is the same just because you are.
I wouldn’t say they’re the majority, but some women are uncomfortable having an adult relationship (intimate) with multiple men.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think it’s right to assume that she won’t.
There may be a few women who receive a substantial allowance from just one papa (a male supporter).
If a papa wants you to see only him, you can simply turn him down if that doesn’t work for you...
👨 Male
Universe member
Eventually, you may end up with just one supporter—but from the start, you should ideally have only one.
As for a backup, there are dating clubs.
However, since women can’t always do that, I think it’s understandable to have a few backup options. Still, it’s best to proceed carefully.
P.S.
These days, Patro is available, so if women make active use of it, it may be possible to have just one supporter from the very beginning.
That said, the men you’re already seeing probably won’t make advances that often, so I imagine luck also plays a part.
Also, if you receive an offer, you should keep in mind that it’s initially intended to be a short-term arrangement. As the relationship continues, it usually becomes clear whether it’s going to be long-term or short-term...
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Many people of both genders keep their options open, so I don’t think many are willing to fully commit to just one person.
For both men and women, the ultimate ideal is finding one person they can trust, feel safe and comfortable with.
No one dreams of going through the hassle of contacting and meeting multiple people and constantly looking for the next one.
It’s rare to find a mutually fulfilling connection where both people see each other as their ideal.
And even when that does happen, it’s limited to only a very small number of men and women.
Hmm… those who can always make that happen might not even need to join a club—or do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—in the first place...
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it’s because it’s considered a happy occasion.
That said, I don’t think it’s so uncommon that you could say it “hardly ever happens.” Quite a few women value having a mutually satisfying relationship over collecting a lot of allowance. Others prioritize their jobs, spending time with friends, and enjoying a fulfilling personal life. Some are also afraid that their sense of money will become distorted and they’ll be unable to return to a normal working life.