I recently had my first meeting with a man who sent me an offer through Universe Club.
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He told me that since joining, he’d met around 30 women. Of those 30, he met seven a second time and one a third time. He said she was the only woman he had genuinely liked on his own. However, he didn’t feel any sexual attraction toward her, so they never became intimate, and things ended without a fourth meeting.
He said his type was extremely narrow, but that I was the kind of woman he’d been looking for. He told me he was glad he came today and asked me to become his girlfriend. Before I left, he gave me his business card. I’m a Type B, so this time we only had dinner.
However, he held my hand in the car on the way home.
If a man really likes a woman, he wouldn’t casually touch her, would he?
Does the fact that he touched me so casually mean he only sees me as someone of that level?
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If you don’t want people to see you as cheap, wouldn’t it be better not to be on a dating club in the first place?
When all is said and done, this is a place where you get paid to be held by older men, isn’t it?
You want men to fawn over you and treat you with kid gloves, but maybe the problem is with your way of thinking in the first place...
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Ohtani sometimes hits a home run on the very first pitch, but that’s actually quite difficult. When you’re facing a tough opponent, it’s easy to start by observing the situation and then go for it once you’ve figured out what they’re like—so you naturally tend to take the first pitch. But sometimes the very first pitch is a perfect one to hit. The real turning point is whether you can take a full swing without hesitating.
Looking at his behavior objectively, I have nothing but a positive impression. The percentage of women he likes among the women he’s met seems fairly typical. More than anything, I like that he was honest about having met that many women. It’s also positive that he directly told you he was impressed with you and gave you his business card. Normally, people don’t reveal their identity on the first meeting. There’s nothing but risk involved. Women are the same, right? This man is willing to take that step.
You seem concerned that he touched you, but it was your hand, right? Not your breasts or butt. Isn’t that perfectly gentlemanly? Sure, if he were serious about you, he wouldn’t touch you casually. But if he were truly serious, he should touch you. I think it’s a man’s role to close the distance when meeting someone for the first time, despite the mutual awkwardness. I’m a man myself, but women I’ve met for the first time have held my hand or given me a light hug when saying goodbye. It wasn’t sexual at all—I could tell clearly that they simply liked me that much.
So there’s nothing you need to worry about. Of course, once you get to know someone better, there’s always a possibility that some questionable issue will come to light. But for now, everything looks fine. What matters next is how you feel. The fact that you’re asking about it means you’re interested, doesn’t it? Then take a full swing. Failure after taking action becomes a learning experience, but failure from not taking action leaves you with nothing. When you’re unsure, you should move forward. Especially in this case, with so many positive signs, my impression is: What exactly are you hesitating about?
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For starters, meeting 30 women and seeing seven of them a second time doesn’t mean your standards are too narrow—it’s pretty normal.
As for holding hands, I usually don’t try to hold a woman’s hand. More often, I have her hold my cock before we ever get to that.
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Even if he likes a woman, if they met through work, he wouldn’t suddenly hold her hand. But if they met through a dating club and he liked her, I’d wonder whether he really liked her if he wouldn’t even hold her hand.
Maybe he’s trying to come across as an unattainable woman—a “high flower” that people can’t casually touch? If so, there’s a good chance other people don’t see her that way.
In any case, all we know this time is that he held your hand and said he liked you. What happens next will depend on how things develop.
If you don’t like the fact that he “touched you so casually,” you’re perfectly entitled to turn down anything beyond that.
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Even before that, what this man is saying sounds pretty fake. Take a look in the mirror—do you really think you’re that attractive?
And taking your hand was a pretty calculated move, too. It seems like he’s actually gotten you wavering.
Another classic line is: “I haven’t been able to meet a girl I really liked, so I was thinking of leaving the club after this. I’m glad I met a girl who’s exactly my type at the end. Let’s leave together!” That’s a lie too, so be careful.
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