Since the beginning of this year, three gentlemen have offered to meet me.
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However, all three asked me to leave the club. Why is that?
I’d be willing to leave the club if they promised they would never leave me, but people’s eyes wander so quickly—wouldn’t it be better for both of us to stay active?
My other question is: Is there any way to keep my membership without officially withdrawing and avoid getting caught?
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You’re really having no luck. All three of them say that? What a hassle those papas are.
Why not tell them something like:
“I have a specific allowance amount in mind, so if one of you is willing to cover it on your own, I’d be happy to leave the club.”
P.S.
My monthly supporter of over three years is attractive and has a great personality, so apparently she gets lots of offers whenever her profile is posted.
She said she only reactivates her profile when she breaks up with a monthly supporter, then leaves again once she finds another one—and keeps repeating that cycle.
Personally, I think the club’s profile comment saying, “Re-registering after ending things with a monthly supporter,” gives a good impression. It might even look better than staying listed continuously for a long time.
Another advantage is that re-registered members may be displayed higher in the listings.
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I’d report him to the club first.
Telling you to “quit” violates the rules.
> Why?
I think it’s because he’s always been one-sided and unfair.
You could lie and say, “I quit,” but being involved with a man like that will only make things painful for you later.
If he tells a woman to quit even though he has no intention of quitting himself, I can imagine that he only thinks about himself on dates too.
And hinting that he might negotiate or set conditions, like “If you promise me…”—that’s questionable as well.
Maybe it would be worth it if the allowance were exceptionally generous, though.
—It’s me
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Someone who asks you to do things you’re not comfortable with isn’t a true papa (male supporter).
You should end things with a papa like that—especially one who lacks confidence—as soon as possible.
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Thanks for the question. Maezawa here—I’ll answer too.
A lot of men don’t like the idea of a woman also sleeping with other people. Some also worry that she might bring back an STI from another man.
Of course, from the woman’s perspective, if that man is also sleeping with other women, he’s nothing but a risk himself. But apparently, it’s difficult for them to see it that way.
By the way, asking someone to quit the club is against the rules of Universe Club.
> If there are any tricks to keep it from being found out, please tell me.
Recently, Universe Club has made it so that women become hidden from anyone they’ve gone on a date with. (There seems to be a lot of pressure from men to make women quit. I think they’re really just checking whether the woman is still active, but officially, the explanation seems to be that if her profile isn’t visible, men can’t check things like her food preferences before a date.)
There can still be a time lag, though, so right after the date, it might be a good idea to tell the staff:
“I was told to quit the club, so please hide my profile from this particular man immediately.”
If the reason is that he told her to quit the club, the staff will probably think that the man is violating the rules and that it’s only natural for her profile to be hidden from him, so they may respond quickly.
That said, men sometimes ask friends who belong to Universe Club to look up the woman and check whether she’s still active, so it isn’t foolproof.
For that reason, it might also be a good idea to think of an excuse in case you’re found out. A common one would be:
“I told the staff I was taking a break, so my profile shouldn’t be visible. I’ll check with them again later.”
You could say something like that and keep vaguely evading the issue.
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Haha, yeah—if we’re talking about what’s happened since the start of this year, that might be a bit difficult. lol
Still, I think it’s fine to wait and see how things go for a year or two. Apparently, these days, the profiles of women who have already received an offer on the club site eventually become invisible, so they’ll probably assume you’ve left.
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