Doctors earn an average of around ¥13.7 million a year, and those working for public medical institutions make considerably less. There’s no way they can compete financially with successful business owners.
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I’ve heard that some men spend as much as ¥3 million a month on dating and relationships, but I assumed they were a small minority. Are men like that common in dating clubs?
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Since the term “annual income” is being used, these figures are probably for employed doctors, right? Private-practice doctors should be making more than that.
Also, in any profession, there can be a significant gap between publicly reported figures and actual income.
Places where cash transactions are the norm, or where cryptocurrency is used, often have different rules and ways of calculating income, so the published figures aren’t very reliable.
The figure that’s useful for gauging someone’s ability to cover dating expenses isn’t annual income, but taxable income.
If someone has passive income or off-the-books earnings, even with zero reported annual income, paying around ¥300,000 a month would be easy.
It gets even crazier when an entrepreneur takes their company public. Even without selling their shares, they can receive several billion yen a year in dividends just by holding them.
That said, the wealthiest people can be stingy, or so busy that they don’t even have time to spend their money. So even if a papa earns under ¥10 million a year, I think a good papa is someone who takes you out for nice meals and gives you a proper allowance.
I feel like there are more papas like that at dating clubs, but I’m not sure what it’s actually like.
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While this is based on self-reported information, data published by Universe Club shows that more than 50% of male members earn less than ¥20 million a year.
Men in that income range generally wouldn’t be able to spend ¥3 million a month unless they also had substantial assets, so I believe those men are the exception rather than the norm.
I don’t have that much free time either, but I don’t even spend ¥300,000 a month.
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>Are men who spend as much as ¥3 million a month on dating expenses common at dating clubs?
I don’t think that’s typical.
In my case, I fall short on all three conditions: ①, ②, and ③.
Besides, I can’t consistently make that much time in the first place, so meeting twice a month seems to work well for both of us for now.
Anyway, I think it’s best to enjoy the relationship at a pace that feels comfortable and works well for both you and your companion.
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Medical costs are way too low, aren’t they? Hospitals are overcrowded, so they should raise the fees by about three times.
People over 70 should pay out of pocket.
I can’t spend ¥3 million because of my sexual stamina, so I’m hopeless.
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Does “dating expenses” include money spent on going out and having fun together, beyond the allowance?
If we’re talking about allowance alone, even a man paying 100,000 yen per pay-per-meeting date wouldn’t reach 3 million yen unless he met a woman every day, so there are probably very few men like that.
A man paying 1 million yen a month to three women would total 3 million yen, but from what I’ve heard about monthly arrangements over 500,000 yen, the relationship is usually so close that they’re practically common-law spouses. So there are probably very few men maintaining arrangements with several women at that level.
If we include expenses beyond the allowance, even I have some months when I spend well over 3 million yen a year on this. There must be plenty of men who can spend more on going out than I can, so I don’t think it’s particularly unusual.
That said, if you ask whether it’s typical, I’d say no. Not every male member is as deeply into dating and having fun through these arrangements as those of us answering questions here.
I think doctors’ salaries should be raised further.
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> A man who spends as much as ¥3 million a month on dating expenses
That’s me, but apparently men who go on around 60 dates a month and have sex every time are even rarer.
I think the things that limit a man’s activities are ① money, ② stamina, and ③ time (available date slots). In my case, ③ is the bottleneck.
Today, I had H with one person this morning. I’m taking a break around lunchtime, but I have a dinner date tonight, followed by an overnight date with another person starting late at night.
I ejaculated this morning, but at my age, consecutive ejaculations at night and late at night would be tough. So tonight, I’m thinking I’ll just have penetration with the first girl and save ejaculation for the late-night date.
In other words, I still have room financially, but I can’t add any more date slots, so I’m capped at ¥3 million a month.
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