From the woman’s perspective, when a date includes an adult relationship (intimate), do most prefer to go straight to a hotel from the start to save time, or would they rather enjoy a meal together as well?
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I know it varies from person to person, but I was curious which preference is more common.
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In the end, things never worked out with men who wanted to save time by going straight to a hotel.
Ultimately, the papa who stayed was someone I could enjoy spending time with even over dinner only (no intimacy).
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Thank you for your question. I’ll answer as well.
Even the same woman may prefer one option over the other depending on the man she’s seeing. And a man one woman would want to do things a certain way with might be someone another woman would prefer a different arrangement with.
So I think it’s difficult to give a blanket percentage.
That said, if you think about what you want, you’ll ultimately need to find a woman who suits you.
Start by clearly identifying the kind of woman you’re looking for, then make an effort to meet someone like that.
Focusing on things unrelated to what really matters probably won’t lead to a good relationship.
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Even the same woman may feel differently depending on the man, so if you’re going to express it as a percentage, wouldn’t it be better to divide men into:
• Men you’d enjoy having dinner with
• Men you’d want to meet discreetly at a hotel, out of the public eye, and get things over with quickly
That said, I’m sure some women would see the same man as definitely belonging in either the first or second category, so maybe thinking in terms of percentages is meaningless after all.
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Build a relationship where you can be honest with each other, and listen to what they have to say.
Some people hate just going to a hotel and want to have meals together too.
Others are perfectly fine with just the hotel—in fact, they prefer it that way.
I’ve had monthly arrangement partners like that.
Please listen to what they want.
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If you ask someone, “Tell me how you really feel,”
even if they answer, it won’t be their true feelings anymore.
True feelings aren’t something you ask about.
You see them in the other person’s actions and expressions.
Stop taking shortcuts and put in the effort.
It’s me.
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Haha, Kaz got you there（笑）
Let me tell you about my own experience.
At first, I was also trying to keep things short and efficient（笑）
But these days, it feels like we both genuinely enjoy everything—from meals and dates to simply walking side by side.
Sometimes I catch our reflection in a shop window, and we look like such an unlikely pair that I’ll say, “We look pretty out of place together, don’t we?”
And she immediately started replying, “We’re a perfect match!”（笑）
It really makes me realize how much people can change（笑）
It took us five years to get to this point.
A relationship where you can enjoy those changes along the way can be a wonderful thing, too.
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Some people, both men and women, do think in terms of efficiency. It really depends on the person—and on who they’re with.
But if you’re going to worry about things like that, you won’t be able to enjoy being a papa, and in that case, it may be better for the other person if you don’t do it at all.
A papa’s joy comes from giving the other person an enjoyable time—whether that’s an hour and a half or half a day, whenever they want.
It can be a quick meetup, half a day, a whole day, or something that varies depending on the day. I think it’s fine to make time for them according to what they want, as long as you have the flexibility.
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It varies from person to person and depends on the individual you’re seeing. Since it depends entirely on the other person, there’s no way to calculate a percentage.
Instead of asking pointless questions, I think you’d be better off putting your energy into finding a good dating partner.
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