I’d like to ask for some advice about what to wear for photos.
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When I looked into the styles men tend to prefer, I found that many people recommend a neat, feminine look in light colors—something similar to what female TV announcers wear. On the other hand, I’ve also seen people say that outfits that show your figure clearly and reveal your legs are better for photos. Revealing clothes or miniskirts don’t really fit the first image, so I’m having trouble deciding what would be most appropriate.
I’m also wondering whether I need to stand out, since the first style seems like it would overlap with what many other women wear.
I know everyone has different tastes, but male members, what kind of outfits leave a good impression? And staff members or female members, what kind of outfits have you found tend to lead to offers?
Thank you in advance.
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I’m a male member—and kind of a wannabe farmer.
I’m a bit of a weirdo, so I may not be the best reference, but every woman whose profile I’ve liked enough to actually make an offer—or add to my favorites—has been wearing her own clothes in her photos.
This may count as badmouthing the club and violate the rules for respondents, but…
If a woman is wearing one of those outfits provided by the club—a skin-tight knit dress that shows every curve, or, at the extreme, something with an oval cutout around the bust—I don’t even open her profile in the first place.
I also don’t look at profiles where the woman is obviously emphasizing her cleavage.
Even though this is a dating club where money is part of the arrangement, I won’t make an offer unless I find a woman attractive as a whole. I don’t hire based on breasts alone! …Well, I don’t, anyway.
This may be presumptuous, but please have confidence and wear something you normally wear and genuinely like for your photos.
I believe your unfiltered appeal will shine through in the pictures.
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What matters most is wearing something that suits you.
You’ll probably be expected to dress according to the impression in your profile for future dates too, so it’s best to choose an outfit you can keep wearing going forward.
If you have a youthful-looking face, go for a neat, feminine dress.
If you have a sexy vibe, wear something sexy.
That said, if you go too far in the sexy direction—like a swimsuit—you may get more offers, but you’ll probably attract lots of papas who are very sexually forward, lol.
(Though whether they’re secretly like that or openly so from the start is up to your preference, haha.)
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If you have photos taken in revealing outfits, you’re likely to receive offers from men who like that kind of look.
There’s also a good chance they’ll expect you to dress similarly on dates, so I think it’s fine as long as you’re comfortable with that.
Even if it leads to offers, if you switch to more modest outfits once you start dating, the relationship may not last very long.
Also, surveys and other sampling studies aren’t necessarily reliable. If mostly men who like revealing outfits respond, while men who prefer more modest clothing don’t, the results won’t accurately reflect reality.
If you want to increase the number of offers you receive, it’s best to talk to the staff. Their information, based on actually meeting male members in person, is the most accurate.
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The club’s official site has some recommendations. I think it would be best to choose an outfit that matches your style and the image you want to project.
https://www.universe-group.jp/portal/ja/kb/articles/%E9%9D%A2%E6%8E%A5%E6%99%82%E3%82%84%E3%83%87%E3%83%BC%E3%83%88%E6%99%82%E3%81%AE%E6%9C%8D%E8%A3%85%E3%81%AF%E3%81%A9%E3%81%86%E3%81%97%E3%81%9F%E3%82%89%E3%81%84%E3%81%84%E3%81%A7%E3%81%99%E3%81%8B
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It’s important to know which one is more popular, but it’s even more important that you look attractive.
I’d suggest experimenting with colors that brighten your complexion and clothes that flatter your figure.
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I’m aware there’s a widely circulated belief that you should dress modestly, using a female TV announcer’s style as a model, but personally, I think that advice is crap.
The idea that showing more leg is better probably means that relatively tall women with long, beautiful legs can get more offers that way. I have heard from women who said they did, in fact, receive plenty of offers because of it.
I think it’s best to show your own personality. You know better than anyone what kind of clothes make you look your best.
That said, I believe they tell you at the initial interview to dress “as you would for a date.” So if your fashion is particularly distinctive, you should probably tone it down a little. Apparently, even if you normally wear jeans and sneakers, wearing them to the meeting doesn’t go over very well.
Personally, though, I think hoodies and jeans are perfectly fine.
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I still think a neat, feminine look in light-colored clothing works best—something like what a female news anchor or weather presenter might wear.
It’s better to leave a little more to the imagination than go for something revealing (lol). After all, you can always check things out by looking and touching later (lol).
Sorry for being such a stereotypical old-school guy.
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