Tips Sep 28, 2023 16:52

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If I join a dating club to fill my loneliness, is there really any chance of meeting a wonderful man? I’ve tried matching apps, aiai meetups, and so on because I’d like to meet a gentleman I can have a long-term relationship with, but I haven’t met anyone at all. I’m doing this because I feel lonely. I’d appreciate your opinions.
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This is Umino from the club staff. There’s certainly a chance you could meet a wonderful man you really click with! If you sincerely engage with him and build the relationship thoughtfully, it’s likely to last longer as well. The club will also do everything we can to help connect you with offers, so why not come in for an interview sometime?
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
Nothing in life is guaranteed, but if we’re talking probabilities, I think you have a better chance with Universe Club than with an app. That’s because both men and women have to pass an interview before they can become members. Also, the club’s matches are arranged with the help of people. That said, some people do get married through apps, while others don’t get results even through a club. If apps aren’t working for you, why not try registering with a dating club? You might see things from a whole new perspective—and if it doesn’t work out, you can always cancel your membership. It’s Me
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Whatever your reason, there’s a chance you’ll meet a wonderful man. That said, men who are attractive, popular, and successful in relationships can probably also be found through dating apps or aishōseki-style venues, so it’s hard to say. Marika
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
> I’ve been using dating apps, going to mixer-style meetups, and so on because I’d like to meet a gentleman I can see long-term, but I haven’t had any luck at all. I’m not sure how long you mean by “long-term,” since the question doesn’t really say, but in my case, whenever I start seeing someone, I do so with the intention of continuing for at least two or three years. I’m probably not the only one, and while papa supporters like that may be in the minority, I think there are some out there. Though rather than calling me a wonderful papa, you should probably think of me as an unattractive, lecherous old man... My current relationship has lasted five years, and we still see each other twice a month. Lately, her job has become stable, so it feels like she no longer really needs papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), but she doesn’t seem inclined to quit(笑) I do wonder what she thinks about not getting a boyfriend, though. As far as I’m concerned, she really should start looking for a husband soon... I’m worried that before long, it won’t just be a matter of marrying late—she may not have any suitors left at all.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It seems fairly common to meet a man you click with, so depending on your approach and luck, it could happen for you too.
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