How likely is it that an attractive woman already has a boyfriend or spouse?
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My partner is a beautiful woman in her late twenties to early thirties who used to work in the nightlife industry. She says she’s single, but I can’t help wondering whether she might have a boyfriend or husband on the side.
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There probably are, naturally. You can expect that she gets plenty of approaches from men.
Is it wrong for her to have other supporters? Is that really a bad thing?
If she’s that beautiful, I imagine she has plenty of rivals among the other papas (male supporters) too. Since she chose you, I think it’s okay to be satisfied with that.
To avoid being disliked, don’t pry too deeply into it. Just keep things smooth and sophisticated. You get to spend time with an attractive woman fairly often—though, of course, that’s ultimately thanks to your money.
If you push the issue, she might see you as a troublesome papa and end things with you.
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With those qualities, speaking generally, there’s almost certainly someone else involved. There’s no way men in general would leave her alone. It’s a red ocean out there.
That said, some people still come out on top, and you might be one of them. Can’t you get a general sense of it when you’re together—from what she says, her attitude, or even her reactions during sex?
Maybe that’s exactly why you’re asking, but if so, I think your suspicions are probably right. Since you’re in a fairly deep relationship with her, you must have picked up on something based on much stronger information than anything you’ve written here.
Another thing: what exactly is the problem if there’s someone else? If you can still see her whether there is or isn’t, isn’t that enough?
On the other hand, if worrying about that makes you stop treating her with your usual kindness, I think that loss would be much greater.
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You can’t make a blanket statement about the likelihood that a beautiful woman has a boyfriend. Whether she’s in a relationship depends on factors such as her personal appeal, social connections, and opportunities to meet people, so there’s no single probability that applies to everyone.
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Whether she has a boyfriend or spouse is something that affects her personal values and lifestyle—it has absolutely nothing to do with whether she’s attractive.
Besides, “pretty” and “beautiful” mean different things to different people, so there’s really no way to answer that.
So, what’s the purpose of your papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
It doesn’t seem like you’re looking for the happiness that comes from enjoying dates with women. It feels more like you’re trying to investigate their personal lives.
That sounds like some seriously unhappy papa-katsu.
It’s me.
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Probability she has a boyfriend: 70%.
If she’s 30 or older, I’d put the chance that she has a spouse at around 30%. Married women do participate in club activities since they have the time, but I get the impression they’re relatively uncommon.
If she used to be in the Black Class, there’s probably an 80% chance she has plenty of boyfriends—or male friends around her age. As for whether she’s single or married, I’d say there’s a 90% chance her claim is accurate. Unless you’re really clueless, you can usually tell whether someone is married or single.
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I don’t know the exact odds, but it’s best to assume they do exist when interacting with people.
That said, there may be fewer than you’d expect. Some people simply don’t create one, so it’s hard to say for sure.
It’s best to respect what the person says about themselves. Once you’re dating, you’ll naturally come to understand them, so it’ll be fine.
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