I’m the one who asked, “Will he get tired of me if we see each other four or five times a week?”
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Sorry for not explaining it clearly.
We’re currently seeing each other four or five days a week, but sometimes I worry that meeting this often might make him lose interest sooner, so I wanted to ask.
Are we seeing each other too much?
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Men only tend to get bored when they’re in an adult relationship (intimate) with the same woman.
Even if you see each other four or five times a week, I don’t think he’ll get bored easily if the adult relationship (intimate) part is only once a week.
If you become close and develop genuine feelings for each other, you could have a really good relationship.
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It really varies from man to man.
Some men never get tired of seeing and being intimate with the same woman every day, while others feel that once a week is enough, no matter how much they like her.
Men tend to show it in their attitudes and behavior, so either observe him carefully or just ask him honestly:
“I’m worried that if we meet too often, you might get tired of me sooner…”
If you can make his heart skip a beat, you win.
It’s me.
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As I mentioned in my answer a few days ago, I get bored or feel things becoming routine when every date follows the same pattern.
In my case, I’m fine with seeing someone regularly as long as there’s something fresh or new about it.
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It really comes down to which grows stronger over time: getting bored or developing feelings.
Seeing each other that often shows that neither of you takes the other lightly, so there are positive aspects to it as well.
I had a girl I saw about 10–15 times a month for around a year, and we were intimate every time. The more we met, the more attached I became—without even realizing it myself.
We’ve since gone our separate ways, but surprisingly, I haven’t had any lingering feelings. I just feel refreshed, like I did everything I could.
As for my advice, if the person asking wants to see her, I think they should stop overthinking it and simply follow that feeling. Wanting to see her because they like her, for the money, or for any other reason is fine. As long as they aren’t forcing themselves to do something they dislike, some degree of attachment will develop either way.
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Unless I really like someone, I wouldn’t see her that often.
In my case, if I meet a girl almost every day for the first four or five days, it’s because I like her that much—and those relationships have continued long-term.
Even in a normal romantic relationship, it’s rare to naturally see someone that often. Doesn’t that mean you’re pretty compatible and have good chemistry? Or is it really just that?
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