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Sep 19, 2023 02:21
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Maybe she really doesn’t have a boyfriend and simply has lots of papas and friends with benefits.
As for scheduling, she may be prioritizing other papas who matter more to her, or friends with benefits she wants to see, while putting you on the back burner.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If I thought telling the man the truth would only lead to trouble, I probably wouldn’t tell him.
But if it were you, even I—someone who doesn’t lie to my partner—would feel like telling you the truth.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
As Kazu said, he’s probably complaining to the people around him about you, saying things like:
“Honestly, what a drag. So annoying.”
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Ugh, so annoying.
I think so, too.
They may not be able to meet you on the days you want off because you’re annoying.
One-sided fixation rarely leads to a good outcome.
Please do your best to learn some self-control♡
Other
I don’t know whether it’s her boyfriend, another papa (male supporter), or something completely unrelated, but one thing is certain: you rank lower on her list of priorities than those other commitments.
You probably need to start by asking when she’s available and accommodating her schedule. Otherwise, even offering a higher allowance may not be enough to get her to meet you.
I think it would help to take a step back and look at your relationship with her calmly and objectively.
Marika
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s to make the older guy genuinely fall for you, make him think he’s the only one, and pull a large amount of money out of him.
I get fooled a lot too.
On weekends, I go Dutch on dates with handsome guys my own age.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
For a man I genuinely want to see, I’ll make time somehow, whether I have a boyfriend or not.
Honestly, my opinion goes down when a man flat-out doubts me even after I’ve explained that I’m single, or when he ignores my schedule and insists on meeting on a day that suits him.
Please realize sooner that the reason she can’t meet you isn’t her boyfriend—it’s something else entirely!
If you can recognize that and actually change the way you act, you might get to see her more often.
—It’s me