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Sep 17, 2023 21:37
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if they’re busy, wouldn’t someone with a high sex drive still find a friends-with-benefits partner?
I think it’s the same as how some men do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even when they’re busy...
Other
Even when I’m busy, he’s the exception.
For the ones who annoy me with, “So when do you have time to see me?” I make sure to lay the groundwork by mentioning work, friends, family, and all sorts of other commitments.
But when someone truly matters to me, I don’t leave things vague—I communicate clearly.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
The busier someone is, the more productive they tend to be, so they’re usually good at making time when they need to.
No matter how busy she gets, I’m sure she can still easily find time to go on dates with her boyfriend or friends-with-benefits.
It’s me.
Other
I’m extremely busy with my girlfriends, work, and hobbies, but I also have a papa, a friends-with-benefits arrangement, and a papa who’s like a boyfriend.
Marika
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It might actually be easier to build a connection with someone who’s busy.
Based solely on the information in the question, Aya-san’s interpretation is very plausible… In fact, wouldn’t that be the only way to see it?
Other
Have you ever wondered whether the “female friend” someone says they’re busy with or spending time with might actually be a boyfriend?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
They’re the type who fixate on whether you have a boyfriend or a friends-with-benefits partner.
I don’t think a petty, narrow-minded man is likely to be well-liked.
Generally speaking, a papa’s appeal comes down to his money, character, and generosity.
If she’s busy, it may be harder for her to have a boyfriend or a friends-with-benefits partner. But some women still do, so ultimately, I think it depends on the woman’s lifestyle.