Women will find it annoying and end up disliking you, so it’s probably best to stop.
You should also date multiple women instead of getting so emotionally invested in one person. It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), after all.
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The fact that you’re trying to figure it out in the first place makes me think it’s probably not going to work (in the sense that the way she treats you—or rather, doesn’t treat you—makes whether she has a boyfriend irrelevant).
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In my case, I ask them point-blank once we’ve started seeing each other. By the way, only two people answered that they didn’t have a boyfriend.
Does having a boyfriend really matter that much to you?
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I think it’s best to draw it out naturally through various conversations. You’d be surprised how honestly people open up.
Besides, whether she has a boyfriend or other papas probably has little to do with this relationship—unless there’s a concern about an infection.
What, you’re not confident in yourself? Be more generous with your money and more open-minded in the relationship.
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If you want to find out whether she has a boyfriend, the best way is to casually ask her during the conversation. Any method other than asking her directly is pointless.
After all, if you’re talking about “seeing through” her, she’s saying she doesn’t have a boyfriend, right?
If so, believe her.
What’s the point of trying to find out in the first place?
The purpose of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is to spend enjoyable time with a woman, right?
Rather than trying to figure out how to see through her, you’ll have more fun if you figure out how not to worry about it.
Focus only on the woman you’re seeing and enjoy the date.
If you can’t do that, then you’re probably not cut out for papa-katsu.
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