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Sep 9, 2023 07:32
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👨 Male
Universe member
I’m voting for Marika!
I don’t think it’s strange—I think people just don’t say it out loud.
This is a dating club, but as Mac suggested, maybe you should keep it just a little under wraps? (lol)
There are bound to be certain types of people you just can’t deal with. I think it’s a good idea to stick with Type C and play it safe.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
That sounds good.
Since this kind of activity can be tough if you don’t genuinely enjoy adult relationships, I think it’s a good fit.
I think C would be best.
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Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not making fun of you—it just seems a little unusual from my perspective on women. If anything, it’s a compliment.
But what I find most unusual is that you would ask a question like this. That’s not meant as an insult either; if anything, it makes me feel more of a connection with you.
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I’ve never not been invited by C on the same day, so I’m fine with things as they are.
Even when the sex with someone I love is amazing and our relationship is stable, I still feel like being with other people.
I just don’t say that publicly.
Marika
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thanks for your question. I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
For the dating type, choose the one you feel best describes you.
The thing men dislike most is when someone says, “I chose this type because that’s what I was told in the Q&A box.” So please keep that in mind and, ultimately, make the decision for yourself.
With that said:
Whether you’re open to an adult relationship (intimate) from the very first day is the same for both C and D.
The difference is:
- With C, you can turn someone down about 50% of the time. Their appearance and personality also matter.
- With D, you’ll almost never turn someone down for reasons other than the allowance terms. You don’t really care about the man’s appearance or personality as long as they’re within the bounds of common sense.
That said, there will probably be times when you feel, “Actually, I want to turn this person down.” So unless you’re a professional, I think it’s safest to choose C.
Even with C, some men can be so persistent that, no matter how many times you refuse, they keep asking, “Why? What’s wrong?” It can become so difficult to turn them down that some people end up changing from C to B2.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think it’s strange.
Because of social norms, many women may not openly express it, but I don’t think curiosity and a sense of adventure are really limited by gender.
Personally, I don’t think it matters whether she’s a C or a D, but apparently some men dislike D-cup women because they assume they sleep with anyone, so I hear C-cup women tend to appeal to a wider range of men.
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名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m guessing C probably gets more offers, but since a higher percentage of men enjoy “wooing someone until they give in,” each individual date might feel a little more drawn out. With D, they’ll naturally invite you to H, so the only issue is negotiating the price—it would probably move along quickly.
I’m a regular at a certain swingers’ bar, and there’s a girl there who will sleep with absolutely anyone. I know that because I’m a regular, but it’s kind of heartwarming to watch new male customers, unaware of that, work so hard to woo her and get her into the playroom. The smug look they give us after coming back from H is pretty amusing too. Since you also get to enjoy being wooed, why not go with C? If you’re in your twenties, there’s no need to rush through life.
If you’d like, look for “Mac” at the Nagoya branch and send him “You sound wonderful,” along with a message saying, “I’m the person who asked Question 15987.” If you’re unmarried and have a slim waist, I’d consider making you an offer. Several of the girls I had ongoing arrangements with have gotten married or moved far away, so I currently have some openings I’m trying to fill. At the swingers’ bar, there are all kinds of people—women who enjoy playing with multiple men, experts at choking or making partners squirt, and so on—so I can set you up according to your preferences. I hope we happen to connect.