Hello!

You can enjoy a dating club if you approach and charm her as though she were your own wife or girlfriend. The man should be sincere, kind, and make her feel well taken care of. And of course, you have the advantage of offering an allowance.

Rather than scattering money around, constantly switching from one person to another, I hope you’ll join a dating club to build relatively long-term relationships with a small number of women. For that, you need them to genuinely like you. If you’re a wonderful person and financially well-off, I think dating clubs can be a lot of fun. Marika

At a club, if you naturally spend money there, things develop in a way that suits the club, and any necessary costs are simply added to your bill. With a dating club, however, every woman has her own preferences, attitude toward money, and lifestyle, so you have to figure everything out from scratch—what to do and how to do it. I think that’s the main difference. To give a simple example, at a Ginza club, it’s easy to estimate the time involved, such as accompanying the client to the venue or going out afterward. With women outside that setting, though, the times that work best vary from person to person. Also, most women at dating clubs aren’t professionals, so they don’t know how to win a man’s favor, and I think many of them aren’t very good at drawing money out of him.

Some men and women are like that, while many others are the complete opposite—that’s what dating clubs are like. Personally, I wouldn’t want to go to a hostess club, lounge, or anywhere like that, even if they paid me. I’d want to leave the moment I walked in. Among both men and women, there are those who want to entertain and those who want to be entertained; those who want to feel the power of money and those who don’t; and those who can tolerate that power and those who can’t. Some men give an allowance because they want the woman to entertain them, while others give an allowance out of gratitude for being entertained and treated well. There are all kinds. I think the woman the questioner would enjoy could be found either through a dating club or at a hostess club. On the other hand, with a dating club, there’s also a chance you won’t enjoy yourself with a woman who dislikes hostess clubs or feels uncomfortable with the power of money. Personally, I honestly can’t understand what’s enjoyable about spending time with a hostess. Anyone can have a good time if they spend enough money, and I’m simply not wired to enjoy a situation where I can’t tell what the woman truly thinks.

Hmm, I’m not very familiar with hostesses, but don’t hostesses entertain and keep you company without you having to do anything? With a dating club, it feels like the man has to come up with how to spend the time, or he won’t really enjoy it.