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Sep 6, 2023 10:01
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This is Yuna Seki from PATOLO Support.
> The woman has 17 reviews from July to September, which seems like far too many men to have met in such a short period.
That does seem like a lot of reviews for just two or three months. (The rest of my message disappeared while I was writing it.)
PATOLO is still a work in progress and isn’t perfect yet, so there is a possibility that this is a display error. To be safe, we would appreciate it if you could contact the member club.
Another possibility is that she only uses PATOLO (or participates exclusively through relationship clubs).
The reason is that even women with relatively few reviews generally use multiple services at the same time—other papa-katsu apps and relationship clubs—so-called “two-timing,” or even “multi-timing.” For women who have enough free time and are good at managing themselves, this is fairly standard.
Considering that it’s much easier to meet someone through other papa-katsu apps, including in terms of cost, she may be a rare woman who can only meet men through PATOLO. In other words, she can’t meet anyone elsewhere, so she has an unusually high number of sessions through PATOLO.
And if a woman like that is reaching out to you personally and saying she wants to meet, perhaps she sees potential specifically in you and would like to meet you. (*^^*)
We hope you’ll consider moving forward with the session.
Yuna Seki (*^^*)
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Other
It’s hard to meet people in rural areas, so I was surprised too! If he doesn’t have bad reviews, why not meet him and see how it goes?
Other
As a rule, I accept any offer I receive rather than turning it down. But that doesn’t mean I actually enter into an arrangement with everyone who makes an offer—hardly ever.
Did you know women have the right to choose too?
If you overthink every little detail, you’ll never find someone you really like. You won’t meet the right woman for you just by thinking about it, so why not make a confident offer and see what happens?
If you’re unsure, ask the staff. If you conduct yourself well, they’ll introduce you to someone wonderful.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thanks for your question…
Hmm…
Wait, were you just asking for our thoughts?
Maezawa here, with an answer as well.
I’ve heard that on apps, women can receive several times that number of messages in a single day, to the point where they can’t keep up with replying.
With that in mind, 17 contacts over two months doesn’t seem like all that many.
Of course, it depends on what you’re comparing it to. Every now and then, I hear men say things like, “Whether it’s an app or a dating club, it’s the same women, right?”
From that perspective, 17 wouldn’t seem like very many at all.
I know the point is that we’re talking about a dating club, but she may also be registered with other clubs. Even if she has only one review and seems fresh and promising, she may have gone on dozens of dates through other clubs.
What I’m trying to say is:
Don’t let the number of dates or reviews mislead you.
If you like someone, make an offer and meet her. You won’t know what she’s really like until you meet in person. What matters is whether you still like her after meeting her.
I’d like you to think once again about how to meet a great woman without being misled by questionable information.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
So Patro lets you see the number of reviews too? I didn’t know that.
Well, I imagine popular women get about that many offers, don’t they? Even if you think it’s a lot, it’s only natural that women receive multiple offers and want to choose for themselves.
If the woman chooses you from among them, you’ll be able to continue seeing someone popular.
And if she doesn’t choose you, I’d say you can simply make an offer to someone else.
👨 Male
Universe member
It seems popular women receive a lot of offers, so I think that’s a good thing in its own way. After all, simply being invited doesn’t help your profile unless you actually accept（笑）
Other than that, I think you should both take the time to carefully assess each other before making a final decision.
Incidentally, I don’t have my profile public, but when I first joined and moved up to a higher membership level, I was introduced to two or three women. Since I had already started seeing the woman I’m with now, I declined the introductions—and after that, the introductions stopped completely（笑）
Well, once this relationship ends, I’ll ask to be introduced to someone again, so it hasn’t really been inconvenient（笑）
That said, I’m getting older now, so I’m a little worried about whether any women would be interested even if I make my profile public.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think anything of it.
As for me, I tend to avoid women who go on a lot of dates, so I probably just wouldn’t make her an offer.
Incidentally, even at Universe Club, popular women can receive a lot of offers in a short period of time.
Going on dates with 17 men in three months is perfectly possible; the only difference is that men don’t get to see that information on the club’s platform.
It’s a privilege of being a popular woman: she can go on one round of dates with everyone first, then choose the men who are genuinely a good fit.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think it matters what other people think.
I did think it was unusual for a woman on PATOL to have that many ratings, but I didn’t think she was meeting people too often. Having that many ratings probably means she’s someone who regularly reaches out to men to arrange dates.
Also, it’s PATOL.