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Sep 3, 2023 17:40
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Objectively speaking, do you think your first impression reflects someone’s true appearance? Or is it possible for makeup and other factors to make someone look significantly more attractive?
Sorry for the silly question.
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Everyone’s different, of course.
Some women gain financial support from a papa (a male supporter) and put it toward their beauty routine, becoming even more attractive.
Others get the money, become lazy, and gain weight.
I’ve seen both types.
It’s great that your partner is the kind who becomes more beautiful. Just do your best not to make her dislike you, and enjoy your relationship.
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on the age of the woman you’re seeing, but up until around 25, women tend to become more and more beautiful. It’s the age when they shine brightest as women.
After that, I think it’s better to view it as a period where they try to maintain their current appearance for as long as possible with makeup and other means.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Thank you for your question. I’ll answer this one as Maezawa as well.
Are you familiar with optical illusions and 3D optical illusions?
Humans are wired to have their brains correct what they see. That’s why one shape can sometimes appear to be a completely different shape—the brain is filling in the gaps.
https://image.itmedia.co.jp/news/articles/1903/13/l_ki_1609376_sakushi01.jpg
https://image.itmedia.co.jp/news/articles/1903/13/l_ki_1609376_sakushi06.jpg
https://image.itmedia.co.jp/l/im/news/articles/1903/13/l_ki_1609376_sakushi17.jpg
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In the same way, even when it comes to another person, I think our brains will make adjustments once we come to like that person’s inner self.
I don’t think either version is necessarily the “real” one. The way you see someone now is the real version.
This time, I’ve been talking about the brain’s adjustments, but among our staff, it’s practically common knowledge that women become more attractive when they date a good man.
Some women come in for their initial interview looking ordinary, but when they return for a new photo shoot, they look so wonderful that they seem like completely different people.
(I sometimes wonder whether the fact that this doesn’t happen to everyone has something to do with the proportion of good men, though.)
So perhaps the questioner is a good man, and it’s possible that the woman herself has become more attractive as a result.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think both are your true selves.
There isn’t necessarily just one truth.
That said, your impression can change depending on your makeup, facial expression, lighting, angle, and mood.
Besides, you already know this without anyone having to tell you. You don’t have to force yourself to ask questions.