I think there are quite a few.
One of my longtime favorites comes across to people around her as somewhat money-minded, with a flashy appearance and lifestyle.
But in reality, she isn’t money-minded at all. She’s neither stingy nor frugal, and she doesn’t hesitate to spend money—but money simply isn’t a priority for her.
I’m not fond of lounge or cabaret hostesses who are willing to put up with power harassment and sexual harassment for money.
I’ve heard that some men will spend several hundred thousand yen on a woman at a department store from the very first day, without even looking at the prices, and I think that’s perfectly fine. I just don’t know whether there are women who act as though that kind of treatment is a given from the start. Personally, I think women who are still working their way up are better, because they’re much more genuinely delighted by it...
Thank you for your question. I’ll answer as Maezawa as well.
I wasn’t planning to respond, but since Marika wrote “Pretty Woman♪,” I thought that would actually be a good approach.
You wrote:
> “I’m not concerned about the amount at all,”
so I think it would be good to start your first date with shopping, dress her head to toe in designer brands, and then go out for a meal. That’s how it was in Pretty Woman, too, wasn’t it?
You could even have a professional do her hair and makeup, giving her a completely different look.
Male members often say that a woman’s sense of money can gradually change, so if you start with shopping every single time, she may eventually become the kind of woman you’re looking for:
“A tall, flashy woman like a lounge hostess or high-end hostess who always seems to carry a luxury-brand handbag.”
I don’t think lounge hostesses or high-end hostesses started out that way, either.
Of course, height is difficult to change, so the key would be to choose a tall woman from the start—someone who looks like she could become beautiful with a more glamorous style.
If you prefer the finished product over helping someone develop into that image, there’s an unspoken rule at dating clubs that women intentionally don’t wear designer items on dates. So if you ask the staff to introduce you to someone who can arrive dressed head to toe in designer brands, they’ll probably look for someone suitable.
That said, if you want someone to look like a hostess, the cost of getting her hair styled before every date might be quite a lot. Or perhaps it wouldn’t be that expensive?
Honestly, I think you could just pursue a hostess directly, but I hear it usually costs far too much.
In your case, you’ve said you don’t mind spending the money, so perhaps you could pursue one without any problem.
They do exist, but I think they’re fairly uncommon. That said, I also don’t think most women are the refined, idol-type, or serious students struggling to pay their way through school.
If that’s your preferred type and you’re not concerned about spending, you might have better luck looking for someone at a lounge or cabaret club.
P.S. Come to think of it, the woman who wore the most expensive-looking jewelry on a date was introduced to me through a salon. When I asked the salon, they said they do have women like that. I don’t know how common they are, though.
If you’re set on using a dating club, why not contact the salon and ask?
https://thesalon.tokyo
