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Jul 26, 2023 15:02
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I’m half Iranian and half Japanese—my father is Iranian and my mother is Japanese—and I work for a foreign-affiliated medical device manufacturer. I’m in my late 30s.
These days, there are athletes, entertainers, announcers, and people in many other professions who have parents of different nationalities and a wide range of skin tones. However, when my father first came to Japan, he was apparently discriminated against simply for being Iranian, much like Darvish’s father. Perhaps Japanese people have traditionally had a particularly strong preference for Western features.
↑ I’m sorry for going off on a tangent.
I was born in Japan, so I’m a Japanese citizen and have no trouble speaking Japanese at all. I have deep-set features and fair skin.
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① Is it possible that I would be turned down at the interview because I’m half Iranian?
(Would it be impossible unless I were a white woman?)
② If I were able to join, would there be a possibility of receiving offers even though I’m mixed-race?
③ I haven’t had any experience with men since I suffered a serious sexual assault while I was in university. This may be difficult for anyone who hasn’t experienced it to understand, but even if a man asks me out, I’m afraid of dating someone around the same age as my attacker.
As a result, I have very little experience with intimacy. Would that be all right?
I’m asking here because, if possible, I would like to date a mature, older man with a solid background.
Rather than being concerned about whether the allowance is large or small, I hope to date a trustworthy older man with a well-established background and spend enjoyable time together.
I can never forget the sexual assault I experienced at university, but I’m still a woman, and I want to fall in love.
Recently, the author Seiichi Morimura passed away. After watching his representative work, Proof of the Man, I was deeply moved and listened to the song sung by Joe Yamanaka. It made me sad to think that, during the confusion of the postwar period, people were discriminated against simply for being Black.
If possible, I would be very happy to have a long-term relationship with a kind-hearted older man who knows what the Showa era was like.
I’m sorry for going off on tangents. Please forgive me. I also apologize for my clumsy writing.
Thank you very much in advance for your answers.
2 answers
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re single and have a slim waist, I’d be happy to make you an offer. At your interview with Universe Club, please tell them, “I was told that by someone called Mac from the Q&A box.” Since my club name at the Nagoya branch is also “Mac,” I may be able to make you a direct reverse offer. Alternatively, if you tell the staff, “I’ve joined, so please have him contact me,” they may be able to put us in touch.
I like Iranian features. Some half-Japanese women in Japan feel self-conscious about looking foreign, but I’ve dated several women like that, so I understand those feelings.
I’ve also dated women who have experienced sexual assault. I’m a column writer as well, and I wrote about that experience in one of my early columns. Feel free to take a look if you’re interested:
https://universe-club.jp/column/2452-2
The column I’m currently writing, too—
https://universe-club.jp/column/zentoaku8
—is about the same subject, although it’s still unfinished and has a slightly different tone.
I do have a sex drive, but I’m even more curious by nature. Helping women who have experienced sexual assault recover is, for me, much like helping virgins gain experience: it’s a subject of study and something I’m deeply interested in. Ordinary men might find it too much trouble, though.
I look forward to hearing from you.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Hello.
① I think you should simply contact them to apply for an interview. Since they even have African women registered, I don’t think you’ll be turned down.
② The club’s hiring criterion is whether they think you’re likely to receive offers. If you pass the interview, that means the professional staff judged that you’re likely to get offers.
③ Some men prefer women with little sexual experience, so I don’t think it’ll be a problem.