Tips Jul 22, 2023 21:08

If someone is happy, would they really sign up with a dating club?

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Looking at people around me, including cousins around my age, those who are blessed with supportive parents and a good environment seem happy even if they aren’t particularly glamorous in appearance. On the other hand, there are also people who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even while working in glamorous fields like gravure modeling. I recently remembered that my family and I used to be happy too. This is just my personal theory, but I think that once people hit rock bottom, they can become consumed by darkness. I’m not specifically referring to papa-katsu. Are you all happy?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Everyone sees things differently, and happiness exists only within your own heart. I’ve seen many people who seem happy while doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Don’t let yourself be corrupted. If you keep working hard and doing the right thing, you may eventually find an opportunity to turn things around.
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I think it depends on how happy you are. If you’re truly happy, you might not sign up with a dating club in the first place. I’m happy with my life now, so I quit the dating club.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you ask whether I’m happy, I’d say I am. The only reason I’m registered with the club is simply that I enjoy having adult relationships with women. I don’t think participating in club activities has much to do with whether someone is happy or not. If there are women who aren’t happy, they’re probably the ones doing it purely for the money and treating it like a job in the adult-entertainment industry.
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It reminded me of the Asagaya Sisters’ “too subtle to get across” skit, “The Person Waiting When You Open Your Door.” You know, the one where a middle-aged woman trying to recruit you into her religion asks, “Are you happy?” It made me laugh once I remembered it. Thank you.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
> This is just my personal opinion, but I think that once people hit rock bottom, they become corrupted by evil. ↑ That’s not necessarily true if you have strong principles.
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しろうさ
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Glamorous careers may be celebrated right now and bring in some extra money, but they aren’t stable, and there will always come a time when demand dries up. Maybe she’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to gain some financial breathing room. In a way, you could even call that practical—especially since many of them are supporting themselves financially. Some of them seemed to be struggling financially, but they all had wonderful smiles. I don’t know how they truly felt, but they seemed very mature and responsible.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You can’t live without your health and money, so maybe you can’t be happy if you’re unable to earn any. I’d like to work hard at something to make money, as long as it doesn’t seriously compromise my health.
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