In our LINE messages, the other person keeps using old-fashioned emoticons like “Gaaah” and “Heh,” and I’m finding it really hard to deal with.
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I know it’s silly to let something like that put me off, but I can’t help losing interest little by little.
If you felt the same way, would you tell them? Or is it better to accept that you’re simply not compatible and say goodbye if you can’t stand it anymore...?
I made sure to tell the papa who seemed a little submissive, “Isn’t that kind of outdated!?”
It may sound rude at first, but he seemed pleased because, for him, it was a good conversation starter. I was happy too.
In the end, I guess you just have to decide whether to say something based on the papa’s personality...
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The moment you find something old-fashioned, it means your brain has already started shrinking and aging.
If your brain were truly young, you’d find it refreshing instead.
The old-fashionedness that’s settled inside you—like sediment at the bottom of a wine bottle—resonates with it, triggering a kind of rejection rooted in self-loathing.
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If you have other options, maybe it’s okay to move on.
That said, you’re from different generations, so it’s only natural that some things will feel a bit old-fashioned. It’s kind of like buying an antique and then saying, “Actually, it does look pretty old.”
If you’re close, you could tease them with something like, “That emoji is so outdated! Why don’t you use one like this?” I think it’s perfectly normal to be influenced by the tastes and preferences of someone you’re dating.
I’ve also been influenced by the person I’m seeing and have somehow ended up looking pretty good in a certain direction. What are you going to do about that? lol
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