During a company health checkup, I was suspected of having cervical cancer, so I went to an obstetrician-gynecologist. I was diagnosed with advanced cervical and ovarian cancer, and was strongly advised to be hospitalized and undergo surgery.

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Apparently, I will have to have my uterus and ovaries completely removed. I’m not planning to get married, so I’m not concerned about having children. However, I remembered that my papa (a male supporter), who is in his late 50s and whom I’m seeing, once said something like, “My wife had her uterus removed because of uterine cancer when she was in her 40s, so we could no longer have sex, and it was boring.” ① If a woman has her uterus and ovaries completely removed, can’t men enjoy sex with her? ② Why is that? My papa is a good person, but perhaps because he can’t enjoy things with his wife, he seems to really like sex and want to enjoy it. Since none of us stay young forever and everyone grows older, I had planned to continue papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for a few years while I could still rely on my youth. ③ Would it be difficult for a woman like me, who has had her uterus and ovaries removed, to continue papa-katsu? I’m thinking of being honest with my papa and leaving the service.

Answer 1

For anything medical, you’re better off asking a doctor. It might feel embarrassing, but it’s important, and doctors are used to this kind of thing, so there’s no need to worry. I once asked my dentist, “Can gum disease be passed to a woman through kissing?” A woman had complained that her gums started bleeding after kissing me, so I went to a nearby dentist to get checked. It wasn’t gum disease or anything, but I asked just to be safe. The dentist coldly told me, “You can’t catch it from kissing.” I also noticed the young dental hygienist sitting beside him make a subtle grimace. When I got home and told her about it, she burst out laughing and asked if I had a video of the moment. Of course I didn’t. Give me a break—it was a dentist’s office five minutes from my house, and I still run into her at the station sometimes. Anyway, I got off track, but the point is: when it comes to medical matters, the right thing to do is ask a doctor, not some random idiot. Taro

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