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Jun 9, 2023 17:54
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They seem overly focused on judging women’s appearances, constantly commenting on celebrities or women on Instagram and Twitter—“she’s cute,” “her figure is like this or that,” and so on.
Meanwhile, they completely overlook their own shortcomings, lol.
What do you think is behind this phenomenon?
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In a way, it goes both ways.
Men set aside their own shortcomings and fixate on women’s looks, figures, and the quality of the adult relationship.
Women set aside their own shortcomings and fixate on money.
Wait—
With that look, you’re asking for that amount?
Wait—
With that level of adult relationship, you’re asking for that amount?
I mean… it goes both ways.
Sorry. Just to avoid any misunderstanding, I’m not saying everyone is like that. My monthly arrangement with Fuu is nothing like that—I’m only grateful. Her looks and quality are outstanding. I’m proud of her.
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There’s a theory that every man has a fixed amount of “luck” when it comes to dating attractive women. I remember hearing about a comedian whose mentor praised him by saying, “You didn’t use up any of your luck by getting married, did you?” because his wife wasn’t exactly pretty(笑)
I casually searched it, and found something called “The Ranking of Celebrities’ Ugliest Wives.” It was pretty harsh in places, but also strangely convincing and entertaining.
Maybe the person asking the question feels hurt because that man didn’t compliment her, making her feel like he was putting her in the same category as unattractive wives. But honestly, you don’t need to worry about it. Everyone judges people’s looks, and saying those things to each other is basically just childish teasing. Actually dating someone is a separate matter. I’ve even dated someone while thinking every time we met, “Yeah, she really is unattractive.”
That said, a boss once told me, “You really like ugly women, don’t you? lol,” and I absolutely disagree with that.
Um…
What was I talking about again?(笑)
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I tend to jump to conclusions myself, so I’m not really in a position to sound too superior.
Do you have at least around 100 examples?
By the way, my wife was a campus beauty queen when she was a student.
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I’m Kobayashi from the Shinjuku branch.
That person may have quite a few deep-seated insecurities about himself. I hope you meet a wonderful man who doesn’t judge you solely by your appearance.
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I think there are simply people like that. Women who worry about it are probably the same kind of people, too.
More than anything about their wives, I think there are more men like me who care about women’s looks because they themselves are unattractive.