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Jun 8, 2023 11:54
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I realize that, as a woman, I’m probably not in enough demand for an A-type arrangement. So I’m currently debating whether to apply for an interview hoping for a B-type arrangement.
There’s one issue, though: I’m a virgin.
I think it would feel lonely to remain a virgin for life, and I could be prepared for an adult relationship (intimate) with an experienced man who would be kind and guide me gently, little by little. That’s one of the reasons I’m considering joining.
Even so, I don’t expect everything to work out in one night, and it would be a condition that he be willing to take things step by step. Given these rather demanding terms—and the fact that I’m a country girl who can’t exactly be called beautiful—would it still be worth going to an interview?
From the club’s perspective, is being a virgin ultimately a disadvantage rather than an asset?
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Apparently, if you reach your 30s while still a virgin, you can develop menopausal symptoms. I remember an old movie about a woman who was shocked after receiving that diagnosis, only to unfortunately be raped by sheer bad luck...
If your goal is to lose your virginity, then I’d say B rather than A. It takes the kind of resolve you need to jump off a bungee-jumping platform, so if you spend too long hesitating, nothing will happen. I recommend B2.
If you mention during the interview that you’re a virgin, it’ll likely be noted in the comments, and someone who’s into that may make you an offer. But some women don’t mention it. The woman I had that experience with was like that. She was hesitant at first, and told me about her circumstances when she finally made up her mind. Things didn’t go smoothly in one night, so I figured there was nothing to be done and gave up. She later said, “Thank you for being so gentle,” and we met again the following week, when things finally worked out.
It can be a little complicated, but it’s best if the man is someone who can accept that without making a big deal of it. In our case, things continued for quite a long time afterward.
I hope you have a wonderful encounter.
Taro
Universe member
Based on the information you’ve provided, I believe you should be able to register normally as a B1 type.
If you’re a virgin, a B1 type may actually be the more reassuring option, and it shows that you’re giving this serious thought.
Men’s preferences vary widely, so we would be delighted if you would come in for an interview.
Our staff member in charge will be happy to listen carefully to any questions or concerns you may have, so please feel free to apply.
Takeaki Dan
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> If it’s an experienced man who can gently guide me through things little by little, I think I could be prepared for an adult relationship (intimate).
In that case, I don’t think choosing B would be considered a dating-type scam.
In particular, since B1 is now an option, it seems to fit the intent of B1 as well.
You could also say that you’d like to meet several people first and then decide who you want to ask.
(That said, you may not receive any offers, or may only receive one.)
> From the club’s perspective, wouldn’t being a virgin still be a disadvantage rather than an asset?
Not at all.
For some men, it can be an asset.
However, even if you use that as an asset, once you’ve had the experience, that particular advantage will be gone. So I think it would be better to focus on other qualities as well.
> I don’t think things would work out in a single night.
I’m not quite sure what you mean.
Once you’ve made your decision, it is something that can be settled in one night.
If you mean that you need time beforehand, that’s perfectly fine too. Everyone is different when it comes to needing several dates first.
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Universe member
Some men prefer virgins, so I don’t think you can say it’s necessarily a disadvantage.