I’ve had a papa (a male supporter) for about a year and a half. He’s the only papa I’ve ever had through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I’ve told him that.
I’m grateful for his support, but the number of days we meet each month varies, so my allowance isn’t stable—sometimes we meet six days a month, and other times only three.
I feel like he might suddenly tell me he can’t meet anymore, so I’m thinking about looking for a new papa as a backup.
What I’m unsure about is whether I should tell my current papa. Since I told him he was the only one, I’m worried about what would happen if he found out later.
But I feel like he might leave if I tell him I’m adding another papa, so it’s hard to bring up.
What should I do in this situation?
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I think you should look for another papa (male supporter) without telling him.
Even if the number of days you meet isn’t irregular, the relationship could still end for some reason.
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I’ve had the same girlfriend for decades. During COVID, we hardly saw each other, and for a long time, all I got were phone calls. Then, just when I’d almost forgotten about it, she called me out of the blue and said:
“I made ¥600,000 this month! I finally did it!”
Her business, which she’d started a few years ago—before COVID—was finally taking off. I told her, “That’s great,” and she got upset and insisted, “Praise me more!!!” She looked incredibly happy.
Don’t forget that you, too, have plenty of potential, along with untapped abilities you may not even know you have yet.
Papa-katsu isn’t the only way to make money…
I don’t think you need to get so deeply involved in it.
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It depends on how much the pay-per-meeting allowance is, but someone willing to meet three to six times a month is rare and hard to find.
If you’re short on money or worried that he might cut you off, isn’t your only option to quietly look for someone else?
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I don’t think asking other people questions about how your partner feels will get you anywhere.
Why not start by telling him that it’s hard for you when the number of days he can meet each month varies so much?
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Why not say you have a twin sister?
You might laugh, but I know three pairs of identical twins registered with Universe Club. Some of them had registered without telling each other and only found out their sister was registered when a man, suspecting they were the same person, pointed it out.
They were registered at the same branch under completely different names and in different outfits, so it wasn’t a lie. For some reason, they were even in different classes, lol.
So maybe you could register under a different name at a club other than Universe.
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You don’t need to tell him anything at all.
You don’t owe even an ounce of loyalty to a papa (a male supporter) who doesn’t care about providing you with a stable income.
If you have an exclusive arrangement and receive over ¥500,000 a month, though, it’s better to honor it.
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