I’ve been registered with Universe Club for nearly six months, but I still haven’t had the chance to meet anyone, and it’s starting to worry me.

Nice to meet you. I’m Maikawa, a female member. To put your question very briefly, I understand that you’re asking why you haven’t received any offers, so I’ll answer from that perspective. I think there may be a slight difference between how you present yourself and how you view things. If you’ve already decided how you feel, I don’t think you need to change your Type A status. I believe it’s very important whether you had a staff member who was able to bring out your appeal effectively during the interview. I was interviewed by a female staff member named Fujisawa. At first, I was so nervous that my face turned bright red, but she made the photo shoot fun and encouraged me throughout. Even some of the men I met told me that Fujisawa was wonderful. If someone hasn’t made their profile public, you won’t be able to meet them unless they find you interesting based on things like your occupation, hobbies, or overall vibe. However, if you find a man you’re interested in among those with public profiles, expressing your feelings toward him in words may help you stand out as someone who has a genuine interest in him. You can send “You’re wonderful” with a message multiple times, so I’m sure there’s a reason that feature is available. By “the way you view things,” I assume you mean your image of dating clubs. Kida’s book explains it very clearly, so if you have time, I definitely recommend reading it. I believe that only by valuing yourself can you truly value the other person as well.

Why not try retaking your photos? (((o(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)o)))

There are actually men who specialize in A-type women and don’t seek an adult relationship (intimate). I know a woman who says she gets to enjoy great experiences, like going to see performances, and receives a decent allowance. That said, even among women of similar quality, A-type women seem to receive only about one-tenth as many offers as B- or C-type women. Most of the A-type women I’ve contacted have received fewer than five offers. Incidentally, women who do well with dinner-only A-type arrangements don’t tend to be especially aggressive. They usually have a steady income elsewhere and simply think, “A little extra would be nice.” It’s almost like fishing—they just patiently wait for offers to come in. I’ve even often heard things like, “I forgot I’d registered,” or “I haven’t checked the club’s page in a while,” though I don’t know how true those stories are. The quality may be somewhat mixed, but if you’re in a hurry, you might have better luck looking through an app or something similar.

Yes! As you suspect, the biggest factor is probably that you’re an A-type—meaning dinner only (no intimacy). If you have a certain level of looks, I imagine you’d receive offers by switching to B or C. If an adult relationship (intimate) is absolutely off the table, I recommend trying paid social drinking events, cabaret clubs or girls’ bars, and working at clubs in Ginza as well.

I think it would be good for you to take a moment to seriously consider whether you’re truly special enough that so many men would want to spend money on a placement fee and transportation just to have dinner with you. You probably aren’t there yet, which is why you haven’t received any offers. If so, there’s only one thing to do: become the kind of special person that many men are willing to pay to have dinner with. Good luck.

Just as there are virtually no women at dating clubs who will go on dates without an allowance, there are also virtually no men who make offers without expecting an adult relationship (intimate). As a result, Type A women are essentially ignored by both male members and the club—they’re left out in the cold. Since they’re treated as dispensable, the only option is to brace themselves for an adult relationship. That said, if you want to enjoy a pure—or at least genuine—relationship, you could argue that things are more enjoyable when there’s no guarantee or expectation of an adult relationship from the start. There are some unconventional men like that, so I think all you can do is wait for up to six months. Even then, though, I imagine most men would make an offer thinking it might eventually develop into an adult relationship.

Isn’t this simply an issue with your relationship type? I’ve heard that the offer rate for Type A is only around 2%. That means you’re in the remaining 98%, doesn’t it? From a male member’s perspective, a dating club is an opportunity to be intimate with women outside the adult-entertainment industry, so I think it’s going to be tough if there’s no intimacy involved. Apparently, there are occasionally men who are fine with no intimacy, and even adult-entertainment venues have customers like that. In a sense, they appear with a certain probability—but counting on finding one seems like too much of a gamble. Some women choose Type B saying, “If he’s genuinely a good person, intimacy might be an option,” but that’s a nuisance. With Type B, there’s no intimacy the first time, but it becomes a possibility from the second meeting onward. Women should only choose it if they’re truly prepared and willing to make a proper judgment. Meeting someone indefinitely without that resolve may be fine for the woman because she’s getting paid, but for the man it’s nothing but a waste—not just of money, but of time. If anything, the time matters more. Younger women with plenty of time to spare may not understand, but the amount of time we have left in life is limited. Then again, I’ve thought that way since I was a teenager, and my current life is the result of pursuing a more fulfilling, concentrated life. Getting back to the point, I suggest that you either make up your mind and change your type, or earn money through another line of work, such as a girls’ bar. Taro (currently watching Attack on Giant Dicks. If you ask me point-blank whether this is what a fulfilling life looks like, I have no choice but to look away lol)