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Mar 27, 2023 12:04
3 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Registration means being listed on the site.
If you aren’t registered, there’s no way for you to be listed.
First, try logging in using the account information in the LINE message saying that your registration is complete.
You’ll then be able to see your own photos—the ones currently listed on your profile.
The next thing to do is promote yourself.
There’s a section where you can write comments, so if you include things that show off your personality, you may receive offers based on them.
For example, you could write:
“I tripped and fell today.
I can be a little clumsy sometimes, but I’d be happy if you could watch over me kindly.”
Someone might read that and think:
“Hm?
Why would she write something like that?
What a strange person.
But now I’m curious.
What will she write next?”
And that could lead them to think:
“Maybe I should make her an offer and meet her in person.”
The next thing to do is send a “You’re lovely” message.
First, come up with a proper message and add a line that makes it likely they’ll respond with an offer, then send the “You’re lovely” message.
Most men don’t think much of these messages, so they aren’t very effective.
However, they do work with some men.
I think it’s best to send them to as many men as possible, with a thoughtful message attached.
The last thing is selfies.
Photos taken by the staff are often better, but women are used to seeing edited photos, so they may feel that the unedited photos taken by staff aren’t particularly flattering.
Actually, it’s the opposite.
Men generally assume they can’t accurately judge edited photos, so unedited photos should be the rule for selfies as well.
If you then upload photos taken in outfits and locations that suit you, they may turn out better than the photos taken by staff.
The location and outfit are important.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
“Severity” scale
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① Provoking people because they want the respondents’ attention, ② wanting to chat because they’re bored, with no ill intent, ③ wanting a quick answer because researching it themselves or contacting the branch office is too much trouble, ④ a simple, honest question, ⑤ genuinely troubled and seriously seeking advice (severity increases from ① to ⑤)
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I’d say this falls under ③.
It’s a shame—the questions had been on a good roll with ④ and ⑤.
For ① and ② questions, I plan to keep simply categorizing them and leave it at that.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
③Can’t you reply to that LINE message and ask the staff?
I think being unable to ask the other person directly or communicate with them is a serious problem when pursuing a relationship.
It’s probably already listed there.