Is he taking a long time to finish because he’s controlling himself?
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The other day, I was intimate with someone for the first time, and he kept going for about an hour and a half, changing positions along the way.
When I said, “It’s hard to finish after drinking, isn’t it?” he replied, “No, I can finish quickly—I’m just holding back.”
Is that really possible?
Is he just a delayed finisher, or is there something wrong with my vagina…?
Please tell me >_<
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If you can’t control your ejaculation, you can’t become an adult film actor.
That man must have mastered a technique for controlling it.
Rather than making ejaculation more difficult, alcohol tends to make it difficult to get or maintain an erection in the first place.
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If this is true, is it something you can accept?
And if it’s a lie, does that mean you’re going to end things with him?
If your actions going forward won’t change whether it’s true or not, then I don’t think finding out would really serve any purpose.
What matters now, I think, is that you still want to continue seeing him, but spending an hour and a half every time is difficult.
If that’s the case, it might be better to focus on how to help him finish sooner.
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If you pretend to be enjoying it, I think you can get your papa to finish fairly quickly.
With Fuu’s regular partner of five years, once the thrusting has gone on for a while, she says things like, “That feels even better,” “I think I’m going to come,” and “Can I?” Just keep it moderate—if you overdo it, it sounds fake.
As for actions that show she’s enjoying it:
- Gripping the sheets tightly during doggy style
- Squeezing my arm during missionary
- Hugging my waist tightly during missionary
(while saying, “More…”)
- Pulling me close during missionary and kissing my neck
And so on.
I’m naturally fairly tight, and I’m usually a little slow to finish, but this particular woman can make me finish quickly.
Sorry for the shameless brag—just sharing for reference.
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So it sounds like neither you nor the man you’re with finishes, and there’s no chemistry—nothing gets exciting or arousing.
If you were both genuinely excited and turned on, you’d finish pretty quickly.
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Since I’m slow to finish, I end up wondering if he is too. I give up and call it a night after 20 minutes.
People do take longer as they get older. But an hour and a half is too much—he’s being inconsiderate. It’s perfectly fine to say it hurts and leave.
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If she says she’s enduring it, then I suppose she’s in control.
Only the man involved knows whether that’s really true, but I suspect you may be quite loose. I’m amazed he can keep going for an hour and a half.
I think you’d be better off getting him more excited, perhaps by letting him film you.
Definitely②.
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