I imagine the men on this site are successful and well-off—people who can get anything they want. So what have you papas gained through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
I don’t have to live my life according to other people’s expectations. At the same time, no one else has to live according to mine.
It made me realize just how miraculous it is to meet someone who can live freely while still wanting to spend time with me—and for me to feel the same way about them.
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I’m Zuiki, a young and inexperienced male member.
What I’ve gained through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a whole range of new insights.
I’m the type who prefers an exclusive, pseudo-romantic relationship, so I’m completely immersed in the world of dating partners. And my partner happens to be an exceptionally capable woman who constantly gives me new perspectives on life. Even though I’ve lived twice as long as she has, she’s led a life completely different from mine, which is precisely why I’m able to learn so much from her. We’re seeing each other while inspiring and challenging one another to grow.
Life as a kept lover really is wonderful.
Just my own rather boastful opinion.
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That’s another good question.
For me, I’d say it’s a relationship with younger people that includes intimacy.
In my case, I’m less of a papa and more of an old man, so this is something that would never happen in ordinary society. I think the system of these dating clubs that makes it possible is pretty amazing.
Also, the columns I referred to when I first joined the club, the anonymous papa-katsu Q&A box, and the staff blog often made me think, “That makes sense.” And although the allowance is obviously part of the equation, I sometimes feel that my relationships with the women I meet through the club aren’t as superficial as people say they are.
I’m truly being given some valuable experiences.
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Being intimate is fun too, but when they tell you things like, “I would’ve died if I hadn’t met you” or “I succeeded because of you,” it really sends your need for validation through the roof.
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Neither men nor women would ever want to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), involving money, unless they felt there was a real reason to.
But the reason is that it lets them experience a kind of joy that feels like the greatest happiness in the world—something that surpasses even that.
At the same time, you could say that papa-katsu has infinite value precisely because it offers things that cannot be obtained without money.
Come to think of it, I recently wrote in a message to a staff member that I had received benefits I could never be grateful enough for. For a man, it means being able to feel that he has received the greatest blessing in the world—that his life was worth being born for.
What this question made me realize was:
“Oh, I see.
Because these are things you can’t obtain without an allowance, papa-katsu has made so many seemingly impossible wishes come true. That’s why it feels so incredible…
Of course it does. Why would she ever meet you without an allowance?”
It’s precisely because there’s an allowance that the relationship can be built in the first place…
And yet I find myself thinking it’s even better than having a girlfriend of over twenty years, with whom I’ve maintained a romantic relationship without paying her an allowance.
Honestly, I must be a complete idiot.
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