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Jan 28, 2023 14:42
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I’m leaving the site, so I’ll have to retire as an answerer too. Saying goodbye for now lol. By the way, do men ever rejoin after withdrawing?
In any case, I’m truly grateful to this club, and I hope to stay in touch with everyone I’ve connected with. If my circumstances change, I might rejoin lol.
Anyway, the most shocking phrase I’ve heard recently is, “Marriage is legal papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).”
I initially thought, “What?” and laughed it off, but in a way, I think it hits the nail on the head lol.
Today, I’m planning to make this a topic of conversation at a drinking party and have a good laugh debating it from every angle.
Take care, everyone!\(^o^)/
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Thanks for everything! I’m heading home now!
I’m pretty drunk, but Osaka here can still make it home.
No, I’m not saying papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is illegal or anything. I just mean, isn’t defining marriage using the term papa-katsu kind of a fresh perspective? If anything, it’s a viewpoint that’s somewhat supportive of papa-katsu, you know?
More importantly, I thought looking at it from that perspective might make us think about its true nature—but whatever, lol.
If Osaka being dangerous is all it takes, then maybe that’s fine too, lol.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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Thanks for your hard work.
If I remember correctly, rejoining is possible, but you’d have to go through another interview and pay the membership fee again.
Personally, since I thought there was a chance I might rejoin someday, I decided it was more cost-effective to stay enrolled at the Gold level—and I’m now in my fourth year.
I’m not exactly short of partners for adult relationships, so every now and then I make offers to Type A women or Type B women who lean toward Type A, just for fun.
Age: Private
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Without mentioning a specific timeframe, you should be able to remain an answerer for a while even after withdrawing your membership. The approximate period is listed in the section explaining how to use the answerer dashboard.
I think withdrawing and then rejoining is perfectly fine.
Anyway, if you’re leaving, thanks for everything. The question box has been so badly trolled lately that it’s become boring.
By the way, as Mac mentioned, I also believe that papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) itself is legal. Otherwise, laws regulating dating clubs wouldn’t exist.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
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Osaka, I hope you and your ongoing partner are very happy together.
If you write a column, you can stay on as a contributor. I’d really love to hear about your experience with Arashi and how it all turned out.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
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Hmm, since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) itself isn’t illegal, being told it’s “legal” doesn’t really mean much to me.
If it could be considered illegal, it would be when a married person engages in papa-katsu, since they’re ignoring their marital duty of fidelity. The problem isn’t papa-katsu itself—it’s married people secretly doing it. Papa-katsu isn’t to blame.
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> Osaka-san
If that’s what you mean, then I’d say “marriage is papa-katsu in the broad sense.”
Conversely, you could also say that “papa-katsu is marriage in the broad sense.” I actually prefer the latter.