Isn’t it kind of inappropriate to be treated like a Ginza hostess at a drinking party?
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At a club drinking party today, people kept joking, “Hey, Ginza lady!” and making a fuss over me. I’m not a hostess.
They said I was cute and bought me drinks. It made me realize that one privilege of being a woman is having people treat you.
Then the older men went on and on about how older women who weren’t there were “past their expiration date.”
It’s scary.
What nicknames do you get at drinking parties?
Flashy, beautiful, sexy…
Being called a hostess is still better than being told I’m past my prime, but either way, they’re a pretty rude group of people. Even if they paid for me, I don’t think I’d have much fun with them.
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It’s one thing if they do it unconsciously—that can be kind of cute.
But people who get a sense of superiority by putting down other women are probably overestimating themselves.
It’s not a good look.
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At drinking parties with older women, they’re already degrading the questioner as “a public restroom in Ginza,” so there’s no need to worry.
“Hey, Ginza girl!” doesn’t mean you’re being complimented.
Getting a nickname at a drinking party means they really look down on you. If someone treats you, take it as humiliation. This isn’t about men versus women—you’re going to become a worse person. You pathetic freeloader, shed tears of frustration and aspire to become someone who can treat others someday.
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I’d always pictured a circle’s drinking party as a gathering of students or people around the same age as you. Now I’m curious what kind of circle has older men there.
You don’t seem entirely unhappy about what they said at the party. It’s kind of sweet to see how much fun you’re having.
That said, I think it’s best to take “cute” in that kind of setting as meaning “I want you.”
A nickname from the drinking party…
“the one who handles the bill,” maybe?（笑）
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Good evening from my snow cave. I’m Potassium, a female member.
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People often call me a bird handler.
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Did the person asking the question come up with the equation “Ginza lady = Ginza hostess”?
I mean… hehe…
You weren’t even dating him, but you took something a drunk person said seriously. How cute.
And I don’t think he was saying “you’re cute” because he genuinely found you cute. When men are drinking, the guys at the table—including the kind who call older women “past their expiration date”—tend to keep saying things like that simply because you’re young and cute.
Still, the fact that you felt like writing all this in a way completely unrelated to the question is pretty cute, too.
Ah, that’s just my personal theory.
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