After playing golf together, we were in the middle of being intimate at a hotel when my papa (a male supporter) started getting repeated work calls and had no choice but to answer them.
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It seemed like something was going wrong, and he kept making and receiving several calls, leaving me on my own for quite a while—about 20 minutes, I think.
What would have been the best way to spend that time so that:
1. I wouldn’t make him feel obligated to entertain me
2. He would see me as cute or as a classy woman
I didn’t think constantly looking at my phone would be appropriate, and I was worried the TV might be audible while he was on the phone. I wondered if I should have gotten up and had something to drink.
In the end, I casually checked my phone without letting him see, then lay on the bed and pretended to sleep in what I hoped was a cute pose. I think I actually dozed off for a bit.
Men, is there anything you would want a woman to do in that situation—or anything you would dislike? And women, what would you do?
In the end, he was completely in work mode, so we didn’t continue that day and called it a night.
As many of you may have already figured out, I’m Marika, the person who asked the question.
I’m late to the party, but Marika is just way too cute…
I might also lie around purring and pretend not to be listening when my papa is on the phone.
All while thinking, “Papa looks so cool when he’s working…”
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I was feeling more apologetic than anything else, so whatever you did was fine.
I’m truly grateful that you realized I felt bad and quietly gave me space.
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I was imagining you, Marika, overthinking about your papa (a male supporter)♡
I sometimes do the same thing. When that happens, I keep myself quiet so I don’t make any noise and just sleep peacefully. Sometimes I look at my phone too, but I almost always end up falling asleep lol.
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When we’re busy with something else, it doesn’t bother us if the woman checks her phone.
For example, when the man is taking a shower, I feel like the woman is often looking at her phone.
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In that kind of situation, the man probably doesn’t have the mental bandwidth to think, “It would be cute if she stayed like this,” so I think it’s enough to simply avoid getting in his way—don’t make noise or give signals that you want attention.
You can use your phone, pretend to sleep, or watch TV with the sound off. Any of those should be fine.
*Pretending to sleep while striking a slightly cute pose sounds really adorable♪*
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Thank you, everyone.
So in situations like that, it’s okay to look at my phone, right? It’s definitely the best way to pass the time quietly.
I pretended to be asleep partly to signal, “I’m not listening to your phone call,” but maybe I was overthinking it.
Marika
After reading everyone’s additional replies, I understand that when he’s on the phone—or replying to work emails or LINE messages—as long as I quietly keep myself occupied and don’t interrupt him, it doesn’t matter what I do.
Basically, I don’t need to do anything at all. I don’t have to try to score extra points by making him think I’m cute or a great woman. In fact, doing that would probably just be annoying.
Thank you!
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It’s fine if you’re looking at your phone or doing whatever. I don’t want you to casually ask, “What’s wrong?” Explaining is a hassle, and I’m busy. Well, that’s just how I am.
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A video conference got scheduled during our time together in the room, so I gave her some money and asked her to have coffee in the lobby.
But she came back right away and quietly relaxed on the bed. Kind of cute, lol.
As long as she stays quiet, I don’t mind if she uses her phone, has a drink, or spends the time however she likes.
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I think the best move is to answer questions in the Q&A box and wait it out! lol
Pretending to sleep while deliberately making yourself look cute must be absolutely adorable!
I think it’s fine to do things you want to do, like have a drink or check your phone. I’d probably avoid watching TV, though, since the sound might bother him.
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It happens sometimes, but I was in the same situation as Marika.
I’d quietly take a sip of water, trying not to make any noise, then close my eyes and wait in bed.
Sometimes he would just leave, and other times he’d give me a little kiss while my eyes were closed.
Since Marika has built such a strong relationship with her papa (male supporter), I’m sure she found any attitude of his cute.
Akari
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Ah, Marika, thanks as always.
Hmm, maybe something that doesn’t get in the way…
How about gently snuggling up against your papa’s back?
Or, at the end of the call, giving him a soft little lick with your lips♡ Would that be too much?
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I’d give her 100 points if she could quietly keep herself occupied on her own for a reasonable amount of time. Personally, I actually appreciate it when she passes the time on her phone, since it means I don’t have to feel self-conscious.
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer:
> “What’s wrong?”—I don’t want someone to casually ask me that.
I feel the same way. It can end up feeling intrusive.
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