I feel sorry for the girl who spent Christmas with the old guy in the question below. She must have been seriously depressed.
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Today I saw an obvious papa-katsu couple on the street—an old guy and a young woman. He looked like he was having a great time, while she was smiling but had completely dead eyes. I couldn’t help thinking how pitiful she looked, doing it for the money and gifts.
Can’t these old guys show a little consideration and avoid making their papa-katsu partners walk alongside them in public? Can’t they understand that women may find it difficult to say outright, “No way, that’s disgusting”?
Just seeing them out in public is gross.
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Unfortunately, this is a common question here, but please try not to impose your own values on the person asking.
In real-life workplaces, couples with one person in their late 40s and the other in their 20s are perfectly normal.
Don’t you think it’s a bit simplistic to assume that every age-gap couple you see at a restaurant is doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
Besides, spending Christmas at a restaurant watching all the papa-katsu couples around you makes you seem pretty lonely too.
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That’s certainly one way of looking at it.
I didn’t like that idea either, so when I first considered joining a dating club, I didn’t sign up right away. Instead, I spent about six months losing weight and improving my physique and overall grooming before getting started.
My motto is: “I want to maintain an appearance where, even walking alongside a girl, I won’t look like I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) to anyone else!” I’m doing my best.
The nice thing is that, even if the relationship doesn’t work out, I’m definitely improving my own health in the process.
Of course, there’s still an age gap, so some people might find me creepy, but I’ll keep working on myself♪
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When my daughter said, “Let’s go see ◯◯ live,” my wife immediately cut in with, “Go with your friends,” which I took to mean that going with her papa was inappropriate.
Maybe the young women themselves don’t care as much as the people around them do.
Apparently, her friends won’t go if they don’t share the same taste… Though I guess it’s because Dad will pay. Is that basically the same as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)…?
I’m fine walking side by side, practically glued to a papa-katsu girl, but when I walk with my daughter, she stays ridiculously close and keeps calling me “Papa” over and over, so I become extremely self-conscious about what people around us are thinking.
Some papa-katsu girls initially refuse to walk together at all, but as we get closer, they naturally start walking beside me. When I ask why, they say, “It doesn’t bother me anymore.”
So I guess it depends on the relationship. A relationship where you have to walk apart would be boring.
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Haha, I know the feeling—you end up looking even though you know you shouldn’t. I’m the same way, so I understand.
It’s just the way of the world that you have to give something up to gain something else. That said, whether it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) or anything else, it’s ideal when both sides benefit.
So please don’t do this solely for the money and gifts. Find a papa (a male supporter) you can genuinely admire and walk alongside with shining eyes.
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