From the perspective of men in their 60s or 70s, do they see women in their 30s, 20s, and teens all more or less the same—as “young girls”?
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When I was in my teens, I received offers from several men in their 60s and 70s and went on dates with them. Many of them made rude jokes, and they were offering allowances despite living on pensions. I started thinking, “Isn’t this person kind of strange for approaching a minor?” Since then, I’ve avoided men over 60.
I don’t find men over 60 strange if they’re pursuing women in their late 20s or 30s. As a 20-year-old, I don’t really see women over 25 as especially young. Many of them have started working and settled down, so I tend to see them more as mature women.
Sorry if this sounds rude, but from the perspective of older men, do they really see everyone from their teens through their 30s as just “young girls”?
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In soccer, players in their early 20s are considered young, those in their late 20s are in their prime, and those in their early 30s are veterans.
That doesn’t change no matter how old the person looking at it is. The same applies here.
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I’m firmly in my seventies when you round my age up.
Women around 20 are still inexperienced girls,
by their mid-20s they’re “young ladies,”
and once they hit 30, they’re “older women”?
Wait, what?!
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Don’t say something so absurd as lumping women in their teens and women in their thirties together as “young girls.”
Even if two women happened to have the exact same date of birth, no two women are the same.
Maybe that’s what happens when you have virtually no opportunities to interact with young women in everyday life.
Come to think of it, when I was in elementary school, anyone older than a middle schooler looked like an adult to me—whether they were 14 or 40.
So perhaps a man who grew older without ever moving past that simplistic way of thinking really does see women in their teens and thirties as the same.
That’s me.
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From my perspective, being close to 60, the differences are obvious.
Up to around 22, they’re fresh and inexperienced; up to around 33, they’re in their prime; beyond that, they’re more mature and well-seasoned—that’s how it feels to me.
Of course, everyone has different preferences.
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People’s impressions will vary.
Some men make offers to women in their teens, while others don’t.
I think lumping people together based on labels like “men in their 60s” or “men in their 70s” is just pretending to think things through.
For what it’s worth, I’m in my 40s, and I find women around 20 rather childish, so I wouldn’t make them an offer. Even though Japan lowered the age of adulthood and people aged 18 and over are now legally capable of acting on their own behalf, I still couldn’t do it.
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