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Nov 18, 2022 22:01
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He also says things like, “I gave a cabaret club girl a breast cancer screening the other day ♩” and “You can tell a woman’s age by touching her breasts,” while touching mine.
Please tell me how I can respond to shut him down.
I’d also like to know what kind of mindset makes him say these things to me.
When I think that he normally examines patients while having such vulgar thoughts, I can’t help thinking… doctors who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) are just…
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Because he feels comfortable enough with you to let his guard down, he can show you his true self—something he doesn’t even show his wife.
Wouldn’t that actually be a positive thing for a woman involved in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
Leaving aside whether it’s right or wrong, some people believe that the existence of the adult entertainment industry helps keep the number of sex crimes in Japan down.
In fact, there are countless news stories about doctors with a lolita complex.
Perhaps that papa (a male supporter) is venting to you so he can release those urges without actually turning them into a crime.
Doctors are human too, so as long as they don’t actually commit a crime, I don’t see a problem with them being perverted.
I think the idea that “they’re members of a respected profession, so they should behave differently” is outdated these days.
Other
He’s just a perverted doctor.
Doctors come in all kinds.
On the other hand, if you don’t cut ties with a perverted doctor papa and keep seeing him, what’s in it for you?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
“Some people do see it that way.”
Then change the subject without giving your opinion or sharing your thoughts.
They’re just looking for attention, so they’ll probably stop if they don’t get a reaction.
If you can’t hold back, find some random middle-aged guy walking by and say:
“He’s a filthy old man who’s into high school girls. I know because I’m doing papa-katsu with an incredibly vulgar, disgusting, sexually harassing old creep.”
Then stare your papa straight in the face. ^^
It’s me.
Other
Try saying, with a straight face but in a cute way, “Hey, why would you say something like that?” That papa probably won’t be able to answer—not because he’s shy, but because he hasn’t given it any thought.
Honestly, about 90% of people say things without deeply thinking, “Why am I saying or thinking this?”
So there’s no point in asking. If you feel like you’re not compatible, just quietly walk away.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Awful.
Since he wouldn’t say something like that in front of other people, he must see you as nothing more than a fleshlight.
Are you satisfied with masturbating in public?
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
You studied hard and now have an impressive, highly respected profession.
So I want you to become someone who’s respected as a person, too.
When you’re with a woman, please don’t talk about other women. Look only at me ♥️
Maybe he wasn’t popular when he was a student and isn’t used to talking to women. That’s probably just the simple psychology of saying whatever comes to mind.
If you gently help him correct that, he might grow into a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter).