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Nov 6, 2022 08:06
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Even if she answers honestly, can you really take her at her word?
In the end, the truth remains unknowable, so I feel you’ll just end up doubting her.
If you absolutely have to ask, it’s no different from asking what other people she’s seeing.
The only thing you can do is create an atmosphere where she feels comfortable opening up.
Other
I’m sure they wouldn’t say that.
With an attitude like that, I’m surprised you’re able to run a company.
Other
Some of the troubled women who come here can be pretty complicated too, but honestly, you’re quite something yourself.
Have you really thought through why you want to ask? What will you do if the answer shocks you—or if it makes you feel satisfied?
Honestly… it feels petty and kind of uncool.
She’s not going to tell you the truth anyway. If she has any complaints about you, she might even exaggerate them.
Seriously… what are you going to do with that information?
I honestly don’t get it.
Akari
Other
Whether they answer honestly probably depends on the nature of your relationship.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
The way you phrase it as wanting to “keep tabs on her” already feels inappropriate.
Maybe you look down on women and see it as keeping a pet, but women aren’t pets, and the woman in question isn’t yours to keep.
It’s frightening to think that some people become like this once they’re in the position of paying.
I think you should let go of the idea that you need to know everything about or control a woman.
That said, I can’t help wondering whether the woman you’ve been seeing for over a year is okay.
If you meant that you want to give her the highest allowance possible—that you want to pay her more than any other papa—I could understand that. But wanting to know everything about her and then just leaving it at that feels scary.
Still, I think she’d probably tell you if you simply asked her normally.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
How do you even come up with that idea??
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Ignorance is bliss.
Whether you rank high or low,
you’re probably only going to get hurt.
“Out of your 10 papas, you’re second from the bottom.”
That would be a real shock（笑）—so many ways to get crushed.
Just barely above the cutoff… and almost eliminated?（笑）
If you have the mental strength to handle it,
go ahead and ask.
Or, if you’re a woman who’s good at telling convincing lies,
do as Osaka-san says and see it as an opportunity!
Just be prepared for a situation where you’ll have no choice but to answer—and increase the allowance（笑）
Other
If I were in the woman’s position, I’d probably exaggerate it a little, lol.
Like, “This is my chance!” lol.
You could ask something like, “I’m thinking of asking for about this much as an allowance to start with—honestly, where would that rank?”
Other
I think she’ll tell you if you say, “I’ll pay more than your other papas,” but…
Since you’re asking, you should be prepared to offer more than her other papas. Otherwise, some things are better left unknown.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
“I want to be your number-one papa, so tell me how much allowance you get from your other papas!”
That’s probably what he means.
If he’s asking, though, make sure he offers more than the highest amount you’ve received.