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Should I assume that it would be considered rude not to invite a Type C woman to have an adult relationship on the very first day?

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I recently joined and met a Type C woman. I wasn't considering an adult relationship from the first day, and if we hit it off, I wanted to present terms for an arrangement including an adult relationship and start that kind of relationship from our next meeting. This time, she agreed to those terms. Also, if this is how I feel, should I be making offers to Type B women instead? Since she chose Type C, I only just started wondering whether she might feel hurt if I didn't invite her to have an adult relationship. I wanted to ask for advice so I can use it as a reference for my future activities.
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With a C-type arrangement, I’m generally fine with being invited the same day as long as we click. But if we don’t hit it off, I’ll turn it down even if it’s a C-type arrangement. That said, women come expecting that possibility, so if you’re asking to start from the next time, it would be nice to offer a little extra for transportation. If you don’t want to do that either, invite B-type women instead.
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If the terms for meeting again have been explained in advance and agreed upon, I don’t think many women would feel hurt by it. That said, from the woman’s perspective, many probably build up the courage to come meet you and arrive prepared for an adult relationship from the very first date. They would likely also expect the allowance for an adult relationship from day one. With that in mind, I think women in category B are likely to have the smallest gap in expectations. Unless someone in category C is exactly your type, you’d probably be better off looking for someone in category B.
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From what the woman I’m seeing tells me, there are often times when she’s actually relieved not to be invited, so I think it depends on how appealing the man is. It’s probably best to read the situation.
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Regardless of the woman’s dating type, I only do dinner for the first meeting. I let the club know in advance, “The first meeting will be dinner only.” If a woman isn’t comfortable with that, she can simply decline the offer. For me, it’s the first step in getting to know and assess someone, so I don’t think I’ll be changing this approach anytime soon.
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I suppose it depends on the person. Don’t you think it’s impossible to categorize everyone’s thoughts into just five types? That’s why I ask when I want to, and I don’t when I don’t.
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Since there are different relationship types, I think men should generally act according to the type indicated. That said, with Type C, it’s said to be about a 50% chance. So I think it’s fine if only one out of two men makes an invitation. However, unless you explain things properly, there’s a greater chance she’ll think you simply didn’t click. Also, I think it would be rude not to invite a Type D woman.
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