The more you do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), the more…
I’ve been seeing just one woman for four years now, and I’ve never found it empty or hollow.
I don’t think she finds it empty either. Rather than something hollow, it’s just something that’s naturally there—something you take for granted, like electricity, water, siblings, or grandchildren.
It’s fun!
Recently, she started working, and when I say, “Do your best at work this week too!” she replies, “I will!” (laughs)
It feels like I’m playing Mr. Kinpachi. You wouldn’t call that empty, would you...?
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I’m a woman, but I’ve never felt empty because of it.
Maybe I just haven’t experienced enough yet…
If I ever started feeling that way, I’d probably quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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Feeling empty can also mean that, deep down, you feel it’s worth doing.
If you truly didn’t need it, you probably would’ve quit long ago. After all, both men and women get a lot out of it.
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It’s not allowance-based dating itself that feels empty; I think it’s the arrangement you’re in that feels empty.
I don’t think it’s fair to assume that it must feel empty for everyone else, and blaming it on gender differences feels like an excuse.
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It’s not papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) that’s empty—the person asking the question is empty as a human being.
What are you even living for? You can see right through how hollow your existence is.
If you at least had some goal and were doing papa-katsu because you needed money for it, I might be able to sympathize a little.
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