Tips Sep 27, 2022 23:38

I was left on read by my favorite papa (a male supporter)—someone I met through another club and thought I’d never find anyone better—because of my own selfishness, so I blocked and deleted him on LINE and said goodbye.

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To get over the sadness, I returned to Universe looking for a new papa. I received several offers, and today I slept with a new papa, but it was unbearably painful because he was rough, smelly, and had a huge penis. The whole time, I kept repeating the name of my beloved former papa in my head and heart. His personality, hobbies, allowance, and even sex were all amazing, so instead of forgetting him, I keep thinking of him and comparing every new papa to him whenever I’m with someone else. He didn’t even make me give him oral sex! And he held me so gently, as if I were silk, like I was something precious. I’m incredibly grateful to all the papas who make me offers, but I just can’t forget my former ideal supporter. It’s disrespectful, isn’t it? How should I approach papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with new papas? I guess I won’t be able to forget him for quite some time.
👤 Asked by Guest 👩GenderFemale 🎂 Not stated 👑 Universe female member
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even though he’s such a wonderful papa (a male supporter), you don’t give him oral sex? I feel like he might end up going to someone who will. Whether you’ll meet another papa that good next time is really a matter of luck. It’s not easy for either men or women to find a good partner, so when you do meet one, it’s important to value them.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
How many times are we going to recycle this topic?
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It may be a matter of whether time solves things or a new ideal papa (male supporter) comes along first. Since you received several offers soon after joining, the latter may well be more likely. There may be someone willing to accept your demands as they are, but it might also be better to work on improving them. I can’t say which approach would be best.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
You were left on unread, not just left on read, and the questioner blocked him, right? They might simply not have been able to see the message yet… Well, I guess it’s their own fault, so there’s nothing to be done—but please don’t take it out on other papas. Not every papa at Universe is rough, smelly, and packing a huge dick. I don’t make women give me blowjobs in the first place, and I’m actually a little smaller than average, so I’m definitely not big. By the way, a new woman I saw recently kept orgasming from penetration, and after being with hundreds of women, it was the first time anyone had called me big-dicked. I have to admit, it made me kind of happy, lol.
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I wouldn’t go so far as to think of him during an intimate encounter, but I also have a papa I can’t forget, so I can somewhat understand how you feel. It’s already been several months since we stopped seeing each other, but I still find myself stopping by our usual café. I can’t bring myself to use the things he gave me because it makes me sad to think they might eventually wear out, and even though I know it’s probably a bother, I still reach out to him myself. It seems like I’ll need quite a bit more time to forget him. I suppose this is just the weakness that comes with falling for someone, so I’m letting time take its course. Since you said this was caused by your own selfishness, you may have regrets, but you could try letting time take its course like I am, or take a break from papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). For now, at least when you’re meeting other men, please tuck those memories away in the back of your heart.
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マックさん
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
You should change your mindset and go into the date out of respect for your new papa (male supporter). Even just reading this is unpleasant. You’d understand if you switched the genders around and thought about it, wouldn’t you?
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
When I went out to eat with my senior acquaintance in his 70s for the first time in a while, he apparently wanted to talk about his “new woman.” This time, his new target is supposedly a 26-year-old insurance saleswoman, so it seems his romantic pursuits will continue indefinitely. His younger brother, on the other hand, has no connections with women and looks elderly as well. Seeing the difference, I can’t help thinking that pursuing romance constantly gives a person the energy to stay young. Watching this older gentleman, I feel that men who are able to find good women are destined to always have women in their lives, no matter how old they get. If you’re destined to attract good men, questioner, then surely you’ll find an ideal papa (a male supporter) without any gaps between arrangements. What does fate have in store?!
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A papa (a male supporter) who inspires feelings like that must feel truly rewarded! I’m going to imagine myself in his shoes and drift off to sleep, lol. I hope you meet someone like that again someday! What a heartwarming story, lol.
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