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Sep 6, 2022 12:09
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Other
I think it’s best not to date men whose food preferences don’t align with yours.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Don’t put up with it any longer.
First, I’d say goodbye to that papa (a male supporter).
I haven’t seen you, so I can’t say exactly what you should improve, but try to imagine things from the papa’s perspective rather than your own.
Pay attention to your clothes, hairstyle, makeup, and behavior, and I think you’ll be more likely to receive offers.
👨 Male
Universe member
Haha, you’re really having fun with your dating club experience, aren’t you? I like women like that too, haha.
Whenever I’m paying the bill, one of the women I see stands right beside me with her hand out, haha. So I have no choice but to give her all the change.
On top of that, when we first started seeing each other, I was also giving her transportation money separately. But one time she said, “Since it’s gotten late, could you cover my taxi fare home?” I told her, “I always give you transportation money, don’t I?” She replied that she used it to buy commuter passes for getting to her part-time job, so she didn’t have any money left for a taxi home...
I told her, “The transportation money is for coming to see me, so use it for that!” But she said something that made no sense: “Wouldn’t that leave me with less of the money you gave me...?” So, reluctantly, I ended up giving her extra money for the taxi.
That’s double-dipping on transportation money—a violation of our agreement, haha.
Anyway, keep an eye on your papa, come up with all sorts of strategies, and enjoy getting along with each other, haha.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I have several girls on monthly arrangements, but there isn’t really much benefit for the papa (male supporter).
I don’t want them to feel pressured by increasing how often we meet, so I leave the frequency entirely up to them. I still give them their monthly allowance even if we don’t meet.
However, if that goes on for too long, I suddenly end the arrangement.
I could never bring myself to say, “Let’s meet more often.”
I’ve just added another girl to my monthly arrangements, so we’ll see how this goes...
Other
He may simply feel comfortable with you.
I don’t really think of it as “earning money,” so I’m not sure how much of your life you’re devoting to papa-katsu or how much you want to earn, but…
If you want to make more money, you’ll probably need to put up with certain things to some extent. Since you seem to be registered with another dating club, why not also register with Universe Club?
They have SALON as well!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it would be better to make it pay-per-meeting.
I don’t like monthly arrangements because situations like this can easily lead to misunderstandings and frustration.
Maybe you should try not to let your papa (a male supporter) see that you’ve become too comfortable or careless.
Other
Let’s part ways.
He was simply that kind of papa (a male supporter).