I’ve made offers to a few women who didn’t show their faces in their profiles.
Their interests matched mine, the staff comments were positive, and they were Gold or above, so I figured they were probably reasonably attractive too.
Not only were none of them disappointing, but one of them even continued seeing me for about a year.
If you ask me why, I suppose it was because I became curious about overcoming the hurdle of not showing my face.
My most recent offer was to a woman who didn’t show her face. The reason I made the offer was that she left me a really enthusiastic “You’re wonderful” comment. I’m currently writing a column about it as my next topic.
I also make offers to women who don’t show their faces, probably because looks aren’t that high a priority for me. I don’t even look at body type.
Sometimes I only realize she’s tall when we meet face-to-face, or that she’s a B cup when she comes out of the shower.
In most cases, I can decide whether to make an offer based on her occupation and the club’s comments.
If she’s okay with showing her photo to a man who’s considering making an offer, I’ll have them show it to me, if only to confirm that she has bangs.
There aren’t many women like that to begin with, but I’ve never had a staff member recommend someone who was completely unwilling to show her face.
One more thing: it’s not that I don’t care about looks or body type at all.
As long as she has passed the club’s interview, she’s generally within the range where I’d be willing to have an allowance-based relationship, aside from personally unbearable things like a very pronounced gummy smile.
If I were scoring my feelings about continuing a relationship out of 100 points, looks would be worth 10 points, while personality, the quality of the relationship, and the quality of the sex would make up the remaining 90.
So when deciding whether to make an offer, it’s only natural that looks—which account for just 10 points in whether I continue the relationship—are almost irrelevant.
Within looks, bangs are worth about one point（笑）
So if you’re talking about my overall desire to continue the relationship, bangs don’t matter. But when discussing appearance specifically, they’re an important factor.
Incidentally, whether a woman receives an allowance of 3 or 10 from her other papas, my allowance is 5. Other people are other people, and I’m me. If she thinks a papa who pays 10 is better, then I’d simply say, “Go with him.”
For the sake of my own reputation and that of the women I’m seeing, I’ll add that some of my partners have Premium Black status or have received offers from more than ten men.
One more addition:
Not prioritizing looks isn’t some rare exception. I think it’s perfectly normal to look for a partner based on a condition like “a woman who can enjoy playing golf with me.”
You wouldn’t look for a woman who can enjoy golf and the 19th hole based on her appearance.
As Taro mentioned in his answer, you might encounter a girl built like a sumo wrestler at an adult entertainment establishment, but I don’t think that happens at Universe Club.
If it does, I’ll pay more attention to the women’s class from then on（笑）
I do agree that there’s no need to take unnecessary risks.
I’ve never made an offer to someone who doesn’t show her face on a club profile, but I have met a few women from apps who seemed like they had a good vibe and were great to message with.
I didn’t continue seeing any of them.
I met them because my expectations had built up, but I didn’t continue because they turned out to be different from what I’d imagined.
I realized that my preferences in terms of appearance are extremely narrow, so I probably won’t do this very often anymore. That said, because my type is so specific, there aren’t many people I’d consider making an offer to—so if my expectations get raised by certain conditions, I might still make an offer.
I think it’s because you have a great profile and figure, even if you’re not relying on your looks.
There are also men who don’t place much importance on appearance and are looking for a long-term arrangement.
Some women will show you their face if you ask, even if they don’t have a profile photo, while others won’t reveal it no matter how much you inquire.
In the former case, I ask first and then make an offer.
I’ve never made an offer in the latter case, but there’s one woman I’m interested in whom I’ve kept in my favorites for a long time.
Not being able to see her face does lower her priority, but if she’s a Platinum-level member or above, I’m willing to consider making an offer based on my trust in the club staff’s judgment.
I registered without showing my face.
Everyone told me they chose me based on my body type and overall vibe. I’ve never had anyone seem really disappointed when we met (probably). I’m often told that I looked more or less like they imagined.
I know they’re just being polite, but some people have even said things like, “I’m glad you’re beautiful.”
If you’re more confident about your body than your face, it’s an advantage (lol).
Marika
By the way, including other dating clubs, I’ve met more than 30 people. Even though I said I’d be happy to show my face photo if they asked beforehand, only two or three people actually wanted to see it.
One more thing:
After reading everyone’s answers, I realized that getting an offer without showing your face is actually pretty rare.
I’m really, really grateful to everyone who sent me an offer.
People who completely trust their luck, people who think they can figure out what a woman is like from very limited information, or people who simply don’t think things through very deeply, I suppose.
I think most men have moments like that. It’s a kind of rite of passage.
I once made the disastrous mistake of going completely “free choice” at a delivery-service brothel—no preferences, just accepting the shop’s recommendation—and a woman who looked exactly like Wakahana came over. Honestly, I’d love to tell the whole story, but it would take about an hour, so I won’t go into it here. The impact was so intense that, to me, it was practically a near-death experience. I haven’t gone completely free choice even once since then. Thank you very much for giving me a lesson that changed my life.
However, when there’s at least some information available, such as no face photo but other details provided, I start thinking, “This should probably work.” The following year, I ended up meeting an E-cup Ai Otsuka look-alike. Once you have a successful experience like that, you keep doing it. Also, in the adult-entertainment world, women who don’t show their faces are often relatively less jaded. After repeating the experience, you develop a feel for it, and I remember maintaining a fairly high success rate and discovering some great encounters.
You might think I’d take the same approach with a dating club, but that isn’t really the case. Even women who aren’t particularly experienced will often show their faces, so there’s no need to take unnecessary risks. Plus, it takes a long time from making an offer to actually meeting, unlike with adult services, where it’s usually the same day, so I don’t want to waste the time. I’ve never made an offer to someone who was completely unwilling to show her face.
So, my answer would be the kind of customer profile I described in the first sentence. If you’re a woman, questioner, I’d love for you to come back with a follow-up question based on the results of your own experiment.
Taro
I feel like people seem more wonderful when they don’t show their face, because it leaves more room for the imagination. So, while that impression was still fresh (even after looking at their photos and keeping that image in mind), I tried making offers two or three times.
After that, I started passing on women who didn’t show their faces.
> Diversity
When it comes to relationships between men and women, I think what matters isn’t whether other people see you as winning or losing, but whether you feel satisfied yourself—or feel like you’ve achieved a major personal victory without even thinking in those terms.
With anything, some people feel fulfilled by the content or quality, while others are fulfilled by quantity or numbers. It really depends on the person.
Back when I was a salaryman, there was a man who looked like Naoto Fujiki who said, “I’m scared of AIDS, so I can’t go to adult entertainment places or anything outside my marriage.”
Lately, I’ve been going out with my daughter more often, and she comes close enough to touch me, so I sometimes wonder what people around us think. Going out with my daughter feels good and relieves stress somehow. I wonder why? This is a new discovery for me.
> Mac
There’s a story about Ikari Supermarket: since a product wasn’t selling at all, they raised the price several times over—and then it started flying off the shelves. People perceive value differently, and some people find value in a certain price (or, in a club, the allowance). There are also people who spend huge amounts on in-game purchases despite having a low income. What fulfills someone really varies from person to person.
For people who don’t smoke, cigarettes can seem so objectionable that they’d want them banned by law. But there are also plenty of people for whom tobacco—supported by major corporations—is indispensable to their lives…
That said, if papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) were banned by law, I’d be in trouble. From the perspective of respectable people, I suppose it’s something they’d want banned—whether they see it as unpleasant or simply unfair.
A question from a woman???
As for what happens with offers for women who don’t show their faces, I won’t go into the details, but:
If you want to register without showing your face, you can do so upon request.
However, you’ll receive fewer offers, so please consider the pros and cons and decide which option is better for you before letting us know.
Universe is fine with either option.
My preferences are so narrow that it’s practically either Early-san or me, but I make offers based on height, weight, body type, and so on, thinking, “She might be cute.”
I’ve met two women so far without seeing their faces beforehand.
I’ve never had my coordinator recommend a completely secret woman to me. I make my own decisions based on instinct.
Isn’t it kind of amazing that women will meet faceless old men and grandfathers?
The most recent woman I met said she heads into the first meeting strongly imagining a short, overweight, wrinkly old man with a comb-over.
She said, “That way, I’ll be fine♡”
Seeing her say, “Today, too, I went looking for a pot-bellied, comb-over gentleman汗,” really drove home how tough it must be for papa-katsu girls.
P.S.
Kazu-san’s answer was so fascinating that I had to read it three times.
So faces, body types, and breasts don’t matter at all—your only criteria are occupation and bangs? I need to apologize for my past rudeness with a full sliding dogeza.
Putting it this way is terribly rude, but even I would give her 5 on a pay-per-meeting basis in this case (>_<)
You seem to be giving 5 to girls who only receive 3, too.
I can hardly believe it, but I’m going to look up the word “diversity” in the Kōjien dictionary. This has been a real learning experience. The world is a big place…
P.S. 2
Rather than diversity, this is such an extremely rare case that it won’t be useful as a reference to anyone…
