Would you be put off if I asked you not to go down on me because I’m worried about how I smell right after my period?
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I know everyone is different, but right after my period ends, I tend to notice the smell down there a little more than usual.
It’s not a fishy smell—it just seems a little more sour than usual.
Earlier, after taking a bath, I checked by inserting a finger, and it did smell more acidic than usual.
I’m meeting my papa (a male supporter) tomorrow, and he usually goes down on me. If I told him right beforehand, “My period just ended and I’m a little worried, so please don’t go down on me today,” would that put him off?
Also, is there a good way to avoid going down on me without making the other person feel disappointed?
I may be overly sensitive because I enjoy going to saunas, and another man once told me, also right after my period, that he felt I smelled a little different than usual down there. But I’m worried he’ll think I smell bad, so I’d really prefer to ask him not to go down on me this time.
Sorry for the crude question.
I’d really appreciate your answers.
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Some men may not like being told, “Don’t go down on me.”
However, if you say something like, “I’ve just finished my period, and I’m a little self-conscious about the smell down there, so maybe not today…” then the man can decide what he’s comfortable with. That seems reasonable to me.
If you’re really concerned, you could just say that your period hasn’t quite finished yet and ask to reschedule.
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As for my answer, it doesn’t particularly turn me off, but I’d prefer to let the man decide for himself first.
You can usually tell whether something has gone bad by its smell, right?
For men who enjoy cunnilingus, it’s the same—they can smell for themselves whether something seems off or not.
If it’s just the smell right after a period, there’s usually no problem, and they’ll go down on you without saying anything.
But if it’s a full-blown vaginal odor crisis, they’ll obviously avoid it without going down on you.
By the way, I thought it was tactless and rude when a man told me, “You smell stronger than usual today,” about the odor right after my period.
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Calling it vulgar…
It’s a goddess-like question, so don’t worry♡
A slightly sour scent is perfectly normal, so you’re fine.
Please don’t worry.
If it smelled really bad, I don’t think a man would say anything—he’d simply avoid going down on you.
If you tell him, “I smell, so please don’t go down on me,” he might teasingly sniff you and find your embarrassed reaction adorable, which could make him even more excited.
There are rude people out there, but please don’t let them bother you.
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I think it’s perfectly fine to be honest and say, “It’s because it just ended, so I’m a little…”
That said, you probably don’t need to go into specifics like saying it smells sour.
If you’re concerned, you could try gently rinsing inside with something like a bidet shower, or using soap specifically made for intimate areas.
If the odor gets noticeably stronger, please don’t hesitate or feel embarrassed about seeing a doctor. You only have one precious body, so please take good care of yourself.
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You can just say it outright.
If you have a reason, that’s totally fine. You might have a medical checkup, or there could be other sensitive circumstances…
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This forum is full of vulgar questions, so no worries!
As for your question, I’ve actually been told that before.
“I don’t think you should go down on me right now since I just finished.”
That wording surprised me a little. I also didn’t want to deal with the smell, and figured it was probably better for her too, so I respectfully declined that day.
By the way, I think “It smelled more sour than usual” was unnecessary. It started to sound like a food review, and I found myself thinking, “What do you mean, ‘than usual’?” I got so busy vividly imagining the scene that my concentration was completely derailed—like when your computer fan starts spinning—and it took me a while to get back on track. (lol)
Anyway, getting back to the point, I’d shaved my balls too and had razor burn, so they were stinging. I thought it might be a bit much if she went down on me, but I couldn’t bring myself to say anything. Still, it’s my mission to keep making jokes, so I brought it up afterward during pillow talk, hoping to get a laugh. Instead, she got mad and said, “You need to tell me about things like that properly.”
So I think it’s better for both people to speak up about that kind of thing.
Taro
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