When joining, does the question about whether you’ve had cosmetic surgery show up on your profile? That made me nervous, so I answered “no” when I signed up again before. You can tell whether someone has a surgically enhanced face by looking at their photos anyway, and since the purpose of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t to have children, there’s no need to be naturally beautiful. What’s the point of making people answer that question?
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Hirakawa from our staff will answer as well.
Basically, we don’t mention it. Some staff members may use vague wording, though...
People who have had cosmetic surgery tend to photograph more beautifully, so as a photographer, I’m often a little surprised...
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> You can tell whether someone has a surgically altered-looking face just by checking their photos.
I think what they dislike is that it may not be apparent from photos, but becomes obvious when they meet in person.
> Since this isn’t about having children, there’s no need for her to be naturally beautiful.
There are men who don’t see it that way—some simply prefer naturally beautiful women.
Rather than posting multiple times, I feel this question alone would have been enough from the start. Now there are two very similar questions...
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Because there are a certain number of male members who are wary of cosmetic surgery, even if they aren’t particularly picky about it. And since Universe’s operations are presumably funded by male members’ fees and offer fees, requests from members at this level are likely to be accommodated.
As for your countermeasure, you could say, “I haven’t had any cosmetic work done.” However, some staff members leave notes such as, “She’s had a little work done.” When that happens, the average male member will be screaming internally, “You lying woman!” So be careful!
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You’re the one who thinks you don’t need to be naturally beautiful, right?
From the perspective of men making offers, though, some simply aren’t interested in women who’ve had extensive cosmetic work done.
That said, there are different degrees of plastic surgery, and as long as a man doesn’t notice, sometimes it’s better for everyone that way.
So I don’t think it’s necessary to mention whether you’ve had cosmetic surgery in your profile.
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If it’s plastic surgery that people can’t notice unless you tell them, then why mention it at all?
Even if the questioner doesn’t understand, whether papa (male supporters) approve of it or not affects how many offers you receive, doesn’t it?
Personally, if the work looks natural and I can’t tell that someone has had plastic surgery, I’d make an offer. But I wouldn’t make an offer to a woman whose surgery is obvious.
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It can be hard to draw the line between beauty treatments and plastic surgery, but I don’t mind women having work done—I invest in my own appearance too.
I’ve had hair removal, spot removal, fat removal, fat injections, dental work, double-eyelid surgery, and so on.
I’ll do whatever it takes to maintain a clean, well-groomed appearance.
If a woman I’m fond of says she wants plastic surgery, I’d encourage her and even help cover the cost.
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The woman I’m seeing has had plastic surgery too.
But I honestly can’t tell at all. Apparently, men with a trained eye can spot it, though.
If you’re going to do it, I think you might as well go all the way and become practically unrecognizable—but it seems she didn’t take it that far.
So, for me, it was a little disappointing… maybe?
As for the answer to your question: since it doesn’t really change anything, just treat it as though it never happened. And if someone asks, “Have you had plastic surgery?” I think it’s better to say yes. (笑)
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I guess I didn’t really answer your question.
> Why make someone answer that question in the first place?
Probably to find out whether her looks are natural or the result of plastic surgery. (笑)
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I don’t think cosmetic surgery would be mentioned in your profile.
However, if you told the staff about it, I think they would answer if a gentleman asked.
I feel that many men tend to make offers based solely on appearance. Since the purpose of papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) isn’t having children, is there really any need to be naturally beautiful?
What does having children have to do with being naturally beautiful?
You ask what the point is in answering, but did you really have that much cosmetic surgery? Is it obvious when people look at you? If it’s that noticeable, why did you have the surgery?
I think many men want a naturally beautiful woman even outside of papa-katsu.
If you don’t want to answer, I think you simply shouldn’t.
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