Does the monthly support goal on a woman’s profile mean the desired allowance per adult relationship (intimate)?

I don’t think it’s a particularly helpful question either. I suppose it only gives you some idea of whether the person tends to say outrageous things or not… I don’t remember what I told them myself. I’m sure people have all kinds of opinions about allowance. Personally, I think the ideal situation is when both people are satisfied and can enjoy seeing each other. That said, there’s no single right answer, and with so many different people out there, I do think consideration and compassion for others are important. For example, some women may feel that an allowance of 50,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis is perfectly sufficient. If they meet every week for a year at 50,000 yen per meeting, they’ll receive more in total than they would with 1 million yen per meeting. Of course, some women may want a large amount all at once. But not everyone feels that way. I think answers that imply men or women offering or accepting 50,000 yen per meeting are somehow unattractive lack consideration and empathy.

Many respondents say they don’t find it useful as a reference, but I do find it reasonably helpful. That said, I mainly use it to steer clear of women aiming for outlandish amounts, like 1 million yen a month. If someone thinks it’s pointless, they can simply ignore it. In my view, the more information available, the better. Isn’t that wealth of information one of the reasons why Universe Club maintains an edge over other dating clubs?

> “If you’re trying to make the arrangement as good a deal for yourself as possible, it probably won’t last. From my perspective, that’s just pathetic behavior for an adult.” — Early I really want every papa to read this over and over again. Papas who brag about how much money they have but only offer the median allowance—5 for a pay-per-meeting arrangement—are truly, truly, truly pathetic. It doesn’t get any more pathetic than that. Papas who say they don’t like women who are all about money are also creepy and unbelievably pathetic. This is a place where women come to receive money in exchange for their self-respect. If you’re going to reject the whole money aspect, you might as well use a dating app. They should take a good, hard look at the reality that they can’t attract even a single woman—not in the regular dating world, and not even on a dating app. I’m not saying you have to offer 10 for a pay-per-meeting arrangement, but at least hand over around 7 without hesitation. If you can’t do that, then just say, “I have money, but I’m cheap—ha ha ha!” If you have time to get angry at me, go work and earn even more. Stop blaming other people for your own incompetence and lack of effort, seriously. By the way, hasn’t Top Gun, “the top 1% man,” become an answerer yet? We’re still waiting for you~♪

Maybe I’m being fooled because the men offering less often seem like better people? If my goal is ¥100,000 a month, should I: - Go on two dates a month with one man? - Or see two men who each pay ¥50,000 per meeting? That’s the assumption I’ve been acting on. Though it doesn’t always work out that way… They give me a good impression, so I can’t help offering them a date（笑）

I think it’s a pretty pointless question to begin with. I offer the allowance amount I have in mind, so whether it’s lower or higher than what they expected doesn’t really matter to me. If you’re trying to get the best deal possible, I don’t think the arrangement will last. Personally, I’d just think you were a pretty pathetic adult.

It simply means, “I’m presenting myself as a woman who would say her monthly support amount is ¥X,” doesn’t it? No one can know what someone truly feels. Of course, if you’re going to have the same kind of relationship, a woman would be happier receiving ¥1 million than ¥100,000. It’s the same as how a man would be happier winning ¥1 million in the lottery than ¥100,000. I’ve forgotten how much I wrote myself, and I don’t feel that number has any real meaning.

> Why they ask that is one of the seven wonders of the Universe. The other day, someone raised the same concern internally. I thought we might decide to stop asking since it was meaningless, but instead it turned into, “Let’s ask about her rent.” I remember thinking, even though I work for the company, what an awful company this is. Did I not voice my opinion? Of course I did. But apparently everyone thought my opinion was even more outlandish, so it wasn’t adopted. Is it really that strange not to ask about a woman’s monthly target amount? There are other ridiculous things too, like staff conducting interviews in T-shirts (the company requires us to wear T-shirts or hoodies) while advising women, “You should pay more attention to your clothes.” If you don’t want to wear a suit, there’s always business casual. How can someone wearing a T-shirt criticize a woman’s clothing? I find myself thinking, “She’s dressed better than you are.” And the fact that they specifically change into suits when meeting men makes me wonder whether this gender discrimination will ever end. Getting back to the main point, a woman’s monthly support target is absolutely no reference for anything. The men who seriously try to use it as a reference are ridiculous too. Come to think of it, the other day one woman answered that her monthly support target was 30,000 yen. I thought, “Wow, she’s smart.” The men seem to misunderstand it as meaning an allowance of 30,000 yen per date, but that’s exactly what’s clever about her answer. I saw messages afterward saying things like, “This woman got 70,000 yen,” and I started wondering whether the men at Universe were all right. It’s a monthly target. A target. It’s only a target, after all. So if she only gets one date every three months, she can say she needs to receive around 90,000 yen per date to reach her monthly target of 30,000 yen. I assume the reason she accepted 70,000 yen was that she judged the man probably couldn’t offer any more. Why do they think they can figure out the allowance from someone’s monthly target? Honestly, I feel like telling them: “You really need to rethink your entire approach.” Either way, I thought the woman who answered 30,000 yen was smart. Maybe everyone should just answer 30,000 yen and then say, “I’d like 70,000 yen for the date.” That might finally make them realize how meaningless the question is. Apparently, this only started because a small number of men requested, “If you won’t tell us the allowance, at least tell us the woman’s sense of money. We can roughly work out the allowance from that.” Still, what are they even doing…? They should just stop asking. Oh, Marika said my posts were too long, so I tried to keep this one short, but somehow it turned into a long post again… Oh well（笑）

They come to the interview after overcoming a lot and making a serious decision, then get asked questions on the spot while nervous. They may not know the answer, simply say whatever they’re told, or fail to remember because they’re caught off guard. In many cases, it may be impossible to know what they really mean. Still, their answers can affect whether they receive an offer, which feels a little unfortunate.

It’s best not to rely on that. Those numbers aren’t an indicator of anything. Even if someone’s monthly target is high, that doesn’t necessarily mean they get a high pay-per-meeting allowance—and vice versa. Besides, even if they were aiming for 3 million yen, there’s no way they’d actually write that down. Why anyone would ask that is one of Universe’s seven mysteries. Marika