I feel that sending “You’re lovely” to a gentleman in a higher class than mine might come across as rude.
Would sending “You’re lovely” to a gentleman who is—or presumably is—in a higher class than mine be a nuisance to him?
[Background]
I recently registered with Universe Club.
It has been about a week since my account was opened, but I haven’t received any offers. Given my appearance, I assume I would probably be in the Standard class, so I’ve been telling myself that it can’t be helped.
However, since I’ve gone through the trouble of registering, I’d like to do whatever I can. While using the “You’re lovely” feature, I started worrying about the above.
I believe I fully understand the rationale and practicality of dividing members into classes based on appearance and other factors.
I apologize for the inconvenience, but I would be grateful if you could share your honest thoughts and answer.
Thank you in advance.
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I totally get it! When I was on the Standard plan too, I hesitated to send “You look lovely” messages(´；ω；｀)
I still don’t send them much—I’m pretty shy.
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Women don’t know their own class in the first place, so I don’t think it would be rude to send it to someone from any class.
I once received an offer after sending a “You look lovely” message with a comment. His interests were pretty unique, so I wanted to talk to him. When we met, he told me, “I sent you an offer because you were in my favorites and I received a message with a comment from you.” So I felt it wasn’t completely ineffective after all.
It’s a chance to get noticed, so I think it’s much better than doing nothing♪ I hope you have a wonderful encounter♡
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I think you should just keep going and be happy if you get likes from higher-class supporters. Papa (a male supporter)’s preferences vary widely.
That said, if you still haven’t received any offers after, say, three months, you could add something distinctive to your comments to help set yourself apart.
If you’re comfortable with a more sexual tone and don’t mind receiving offers only from sexually minded papas, you could write things like:
“I love sex.”
“I’d like to be taught all kinds of things about sex.”
“I’d like to try more and different kinds of sex.”
“I’ll do my best to please you in bed.”
Adding comments that make people imagine that side of you might get you some offers. It seems better than doing nothing.
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Hmm? Isn’t it the other way around?
I feel like the more common concern would be: “If I send a ‘You seem lovely’ message to a man in a lower class than mine, he can’t make an offer to me, so wouldn’t that be rude?”
Even in that situation, if he’s a man who could actually be in a higher class but is currently choosing a lower one simply because there aren’t any women he particularly wants to meet, he can immediately upgrade and make you an offer—so it wouldn’t be rude.
And even if we look at it the way the original question describes, class is really nothing more than a difference in the setting fee. There’s no way it would be rude for you to send a “You seem lovely” message.
I think it’s perfectly fine to appeal to him as much as you like, saying things like, “You should meet me because I’m even more amazing than the other women.”
Also, if you’re not receiving any offers, is it possible that you haven’t written anything in the comments section that you can fill in yourself?
I think you should start by adding something there that makes men want to send you an offer.
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I think personal preference and class are two completely different things.
If you read their profile carefully and mention what appealed to you, they may be less likely to think you’re just hitting the button at random.
—Akari
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Lately, I’ve been getting more “Looks great” reactions from women I’ve added to my favorites.
I feel like I saw somewhere that women can now tell when they’ve been added to someone’s favorites…
I think a “Looks great” reaction is probably just the final little push when someone is considering making an offer.
So I think you should feel free to send one regardless of class.
By the way, like Early, I’m not particularly interested in a “Looks great” reaction without any comment either…
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Most of the “You’re lovely” messages I receive are from women outside my class, but I’ve never found them bothersome.
That said, if the message doesn’t include a comment, I generally won’t visit their profile unless I’m especially attracted to their looks.
Also, in my experience, women in the Black and Platinum classes are more likely to include a proper comment and make it clear that they’ve read my profile before reaching out.
I think it’s best to send messages according to the approach you described, Marika.
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Women’s classes are simply a system clubs use to maximize their profits by charging higher setting fees wherever they can. They have nothing to do with your value to the man you’re meeting.
Men’s classes are even less relevant—they’re determined solely by how much membership they paid, and have absolutely nothing to do with what they’re like as people.
So it wouldn’t be rude at all. I think you should feel free to send it.
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I don’t think it’s rude.
To avoid making it seem like you sent “You’re wonderful” to everyone indiscriminately, briefly explain why you found them appealing and that you’d like to meet, without making it sound too heavy.
Marika
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