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Jun 23, 2022 20:42
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Fortunately, I’ve had the chance to meet many truly wonderful people, and I’m glad I joined. I’m also grateful to the club staff for introducing me to recommended women and for their support.
I’ve also gotten a lot of help from this section. After all, I’ve received so many tips on how to make my partners happy!
There’s one thing that’s been bothering me lately. On the women’s introduction page, it concerns the “age range acceptable for dating” listed for women registered as “Type D.” I seem to remember that women in this category previously said, “I don’t care about my partner’s age.”
In a way, I used that as a measure of how serious they were about dating. I was excited by the thought that they were open to an adult relationship (intimate), and that as long as our terms of the arrangement matched, I might be able to date them too. I assumed “terms” meant the allowance.
Am I mistaken? If so, I wish women who want to specify an age limit would register as Type B or Type C, where there’s enough room to properly assess those details.
I honestly can’t understand why some women recently registering as this type say things like “up to men in their 50s.” Is this to prevent complaints against the club?
P.S.
Since joining, I’ve made offers to more than ten women, and I’ve seen every one of them at least twice. Two relationships lasted over a year, and two lasted more than six months; I’m still seeing one woman from each group.
I’ve made offers across ranks S through B and Types B through D. Since I prioritize appearance, I choose women who seem to have a good personality from among those options.
I think many male members want to establish the terms and reliably move on to an adult relationship (intimate) through dating arranged by the club—I certainly felt that way at first. That’s why this feels like misrepresenting the type.
6 answers
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
You’ve misunderstood the situation.
At Universe, they explain that regardless of which dating type you choose, both men and women have the right to decline.
Since this is free dating, not a commercial sex service, I sometimes wonder whether they really need to spell that out. But if there are men who misunderstand it like you do, then it’s obviously necessary.
So regarding your question, does that mean you didn’t properly listen to the explanation when you joined?
If so, take this opportunity to correct that misunderstanding.
Also, if you understand the point above, you’ll realize that even if a woman is relatively young, she may still decline. So please don’t say odd things like, “Doesn’t that mean women can’t decline based on their dating type?”
No matter how proactive a woman may be, she can still turn a man down if she feels he isn’t right for her.
I think that’s one of the good things about dating clubs.
🏅 パパ活歴8年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Why not reach out to women who say they’re “open to any age”?
茉莉花
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Other
I agree with what Dai said.
Marika
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve been registered longer than the person who asked the question, but I don’t remember Type D ever meaning “age doesn’t matter.”
If a woman listed as Type D says she’s open to men up to their 50s, that means she’ll generally be okay with men in that age range unless there’s a compelling reason not to—so I don’t think it counts as misrepresenting her type.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
So, what’s your question?
フラグメーカー
Male
Column
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
With every woman, twice or more? I could never pull that off... That’s seriously impressive.
But if you have that much drive, I’d love to see you break through the “age barrier” too.
Give the male members some courage!