I’m 155 cm tall and my weight fluctuates between 42 and 45 kg.
First, I’d like to ask: For someone around my height, would you consider my current weight a little chubby, or feel that it doesn’t fit your preferences?
Second, this is more about eating than appetite, but I eat more than most people.
If there’s some delicious-looking meat, I’d love to dig in and eat plenty. Would it put you off if I ate a lot after being told, “You can eat as much as you like”?
Of course, at a high-end restaurant or café, I wouldn’t actually chow down even if I were told that.
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Do you think that’s the case?
I think many of the men on Universe prefer slim women, but even so, I don’t think many of them would consider that weight “chubby.”
> Will they be put off if I eat a lot?
I’ve never heard of anyone being put off by that, so I think it’s fine to eat as much as you like.
That said, some men might not appreciate it if the woman starts ordering extra dishes on her own. So as long as you respond with something like “Sure” when he offers, and happily eat whatever he orders, I think it should be fine.
Still, telling a woman, “You should eat more,” and then getting annoyed when she orders something herself...
Those male members are really narrow-minded!
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Reading your post, it sounds like you’re saying that, based on your own self-analysis, you dislike your loose physique and your voracious appetite, and want someone to affirm you.
When it comes to your body and appetite, if this were a normal romantic relationship, you could simply date someone who accepts them. Personally, I think your body type is perfectly fine, and I actually love women who eat a lot.
However, if the “professional papa-katsu” version of yourself is what’s rejecting those traits, then I think you should commit to the role, lose weight, and control your appetite.
Back when I was a broke pickup artist, I’d eat rice balls from a convenience store before meeting women, then go to expensive restaurants to save on food costs. I also exercised a lot.
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If someone says a 155 cm, 45 kg girl is chubby, I can only imagine how high her body-fat percentage must be.
Eating a lot in your teens is perfectly normal.
Marika
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Going by the numbers alone, you’re not chubby at all.
Ultimately, I think overall appearance and proportions matter more than the numbers. If you’re still in your teens, as the person asking this question seems to be, being slim is fine. But at my age, getting too thin doesn’t look as good—it can make you look older. So rather than aiming for a certain weight, I think having some healthy fullness is more important.
Reading the answers here, I’m starting to wonder if I’m in trouble too… but I like the way I look now, so I’ve decided that’s good enough for me!
As for how much you should eat, I think people would be happier if you ate plenty and enjoyed the food rather than leaving it behind. As long as you’re not so ravenous that it puts them off, I think it’s fine!
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Seattle, you’re way too cool!
> P.S. I actually prefer women without a defined waist lol
Update: Seeing Seattle’s P.S. made me want to be held by him ♪ So cool ♡
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Lately, I’ve gotten a little chubby too…
I need to lose weight soon—I keep getting invited to hotel pools. I wish they’d invite me to the gym instead of the pool.
But you’re not fat at all. You’re cute because you’re in your teens.
Also, when you’re a teenager, you can eat a lot and still burn it off, but once you’re in your 30s or 40s, you just can’t lose weight easily. I have a date today, but my face is puffy, and I’m stressing about it…
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If you’re 155 cm tall, I prefer you to weigh around 58 kg. No, seriously.
There are people who like that kind of figure. Put on more weight. If you’re an H cup, we’ll keep seeing each other.
P.S. I actually prefer little to no waist definition, lol.
My latest favorite is Tama Mizuki.
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I’m on the curvy side ❀.(*´▽`*)❀
I did some fasting and cut out sugar, and then started trying all sorts of things because I didn’t want to oxidize either. I’m down 17 kg since I first joined.
Sorry, I just wanted to share a little update about myself (lol).
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Regarding body type:
You can’t tell from height and weight alone. Personally, I don’t care as long as she doesn’t have a lot of excess fat around her stomach and thighs.
Regarding appetite:
It doesn’t bother me. One of the women I’m seeing has a very healthy appetite, and we’ve been together for two years now.
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I don’t think there’s any issue with your style.
I don’t mind if you eat a bit more than average, as long as it’s within reason.
But if you eat the kind of amount you’d expect from a competitive eater, I’d feel hesitant about inviting you to an expensive restaurant.
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At 155 cm and 42 kg, I’d say that’s a well-balanced, standard figure. At 45 kg, I might think she was slightly on the heavier side, but not enough to say anything. Once she gets to around 48 kg, I imagine she’d be aware of it herself. Since appearance is what I go by, I wouldn’t mind someone being a little chubby if I liked her face and expressions. In terms of body shape, I think where the extra weight is distributed and how toned she is matter more.
I actually like women who eat a lot. It gives us more restaurant options, and I think it’s more fun when someone really digs into their meat. I’ve even had a woman order seconds at a fairly upscale steakhouse in Roppongi. The staff were delighted and surprised, which made the experience even more fun. Of course, it probably depends on the restaurant.
Taro
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You can eat as much as you like, and up to that point, you’re still within the ideal weight range. However, you’re getting close to the upper limit, so try not to go over it.
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It’s hard to tell from the numbers alone.
With that kind of difference between height and weight, I feel like the overall balance can make quite a difference in how someone looks. I’ve dated girls around that size before.
As long as she doesn’t eat messily, it probably wouldn’t put me off unless it was really extreme. But if she ate like one of those competitive eaters you see on TV or YouTube, I might be turned off.
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If you’re in your teens, I think it’s perfectly normal to eat more than most people.
I’m in my late 20s, just under 160 cm tall, and weigh around 43 kg, but my papa (a male supporter) tells me I’m skinny. I’ve never been told I’m chubby, though.
My body fat percentage is around 18–19%, and I feel like that’s just right for me.
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