What would you think if you found out that a woman you made an offer to was a heavy user of a Q&A site like me? Would there be no second date?
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I may look a little edgy, but all the men I have monthly arrangements with say the same thing: “I like you because you’re well-educated, have common sense and good manners, and have a clean, polished look that seems completely unrelated to the nightlife industry.”
I’m sure some of you might say, “Hasn’t she already been found out?”
I’m a carefree, scatterbrained girl who sold her virginity to a man she met through a dating site at seventeen and has been living casually off papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) ever since. But I’m good at lying that I have a daytime job and playing the innocent, TV-announcer type who gets the best response at dating clubs, so they probably have no idea that I post things here.
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> What would you think if you found out that a woman you’d offered to meet was a heavy user of anonymous Q&A boxes like me? Would there be no second date?
If by “a woman like me” you mean someone who trolls and causes trouble on Q&A sites, then I think her personality is simply too unpleasant. Once her true character became apparent, there probably wouldn’t be a next time.
As for being a heavy user of Q&A boxes, I don’t think many men would really care about that.
They might even be like:
“What’s a Q&A box—is it edible?”
Or:
“Do you mean those personal Q&A boxes that were popular a while ago?”
I think there are probably quite a few people like that.
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If he’s attractive, has a good personality, and the sex is good, I wouldn’t really care even if he were a heavy user of anonymous Q&A sites.
But if he were someone who regularly answered questions, I might find that a little off-putting (lol).
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In a sense, it’s the worst possible situation—completely unacceptable and grounds for ending things immediately.
But relationships between men and women are mysterious...
They say the one who falls in love loses, so perhaps you end up accepting anything.
Sometimes adversity can make feelings grow even stronger, and something that seems terrible to everyone else may feel special to you.
However, since the person asking the question isn’t actually special to him, it’s hard to say how long that will work. Then again, even if it doesn’t work, nothing will happen as long as he has no intention of seeing through it—or bringing it up.
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I often feel that people want to be pleasantly deceived. By “deceive” here, I don’t mean anything criminal—I mean saying something you don’t really believe because you think it will make the other person happy.
If that’s what the other person wants, I think it’s okay to play along and deceive them. That said, you should carefully assess how safe the person is to deceive and how far to take it.
If I found out they were a heavy user of the anonymous Q&A site, I’d lie and say I was one too, then ask, “I kind of like Flagmaker-san. What do you think of him?” They’d probably reply, “He’s just some ordinary salaryman, right? He seems pretty full of himself.” I’d then say, “True! He does seem pretty arrogant! Haha,” and force a wry smile.
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While you’re still drifting through life, it’s a great opportunity to find something that suits you and that you can truly focus on.
Analyze yourself and think about which direction you want to take. For now, I think it’s best to view this as a preparation period.
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If you’re a heavy user of the Q&A site, you probably go on dates thinking, “I’m such a loser.”
Of course, you’d never actually introduce yourself as one.
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Questioner,
What other questions have you been asked? Are you a heavy user?
You don’t seem to be one of those usual trolls who keeps posting repeatedly, though.
I wonder if the papas—and you yourself—aren’t deceiving themselves even though they vaguely realize the truth. If you’re cute and good in bed, some people may be willing to put up with your personality. You could also date multiple people and make up for it with other women.
That magic only works while your youth and innocent appearance last, so make the most of it while you can.
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I’m confident I can tell when someone doesn’t have a regular day job, because I talk about work quite a bit.
I don’t mind if you’re a heavy user of anonymous Q&A boxes, but I don’t like trolls.
If either issue comes to light, there won’t be a next time, and I’ll give the club feedback. If there are lies in your profile about your day job, I’ll submit the lowest rating and file a complaint.
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